Big Girl Phobia
Wednesday, November 30, 2011
Yesterday while out with my girlfriends I was very upset at what I heard from one of the friends and I know I can only share this with you because you will understand. They were discussing a BBT Party that happened on Saturday, now I don't know what BBT stands for but it was a party for big beautiful women. They were saying how the party was a success and there were about 200 to 250 people there. The "friend" who doesn't seem to have too much of a weight problem and she is a little petite but still a little thick around the edges said " yeah ha ha ha it was more like 600 because of their size" WHAT! I looked at her and she must of thought I was going to laugh but no I did not think it was funny. Then she continued to say over and over again how big they were and she couldn't believe men actually came out for them and that they were some big b#$%hes and saying oh my god they were some huge women." How can they carry all that weight around. They had to remove the tables and chairs because they couldn't fit on them. They didn't have any food at the party so she would say that they should have had something like biscuits so it can soke up some of the liquor because you know they like bread ha ha ha! WAIT! and why was she there anyway! I did find out later that she went because she knew someone giving the party and she just wanted to be the only skinny one there so they can get jealous of her and she knew the men would talk to her and not them. NOT! When these men came to the party they knew what it was about and that's why they were there. She continued with these rude remarks and it really upset my soul. So I just got up and kindly walked away to prevent me from pulling out the messed up weave she had on. I thought later that I should have said something but it would have all come out wrong and like I said I might have knocked her teeth out. She must have thought that she wasn't being offensive. I may not be the size I use to be but it still hurts to hear someone say these things and think it's a joke. I had to sit back and think this is only a case of Big Girl phobia because they are starting to see our confidence and self esteem grow even more each day. Big girls know their big it's not a secret we are not trying to hide it we just embrace it. As long as you love yourself you will shine and that's what they are afraid of. They are starting to figure out that men want us just a much because they see the beauty pass the physical. So now they are fighting to keep us from being in the center of attention where they use to be so that is where the negative remarks and stupid big girl jokes come into play. " DON'T HATE ME CAUSE I'M BEAUTIFUL". (which is one of my favorite songs by the way) : ) So look out girls there is a disease in town and it's called Big Girl Phobia. Don't run from it because it can't hurt you it will only make you stronger.
Have a fabulous day my friends.