Sissy and Sassy this is the best place to be. I was never in everyone's eyes terribly overweight and yet at 161 pounds I felt horrible and extremely uncomfortable. I found Spark and dibble as well as dabbled with this website for 2 years. I finally got serious....started following the nutritrion plans, exercise advice and started to see a difference. I know at this point 30 pounds lighter that this was something I could not do on my own.
At Spark there is a large number of people that were feeling the same way. Start talking to people, get advice, take things one day at a time. Thats the best thing!!!
If either of you have any questions please feel free to ask!
Good luck with your journey, enjoy your day, Danielle