I wish I could feel joy again

Friday, June 03, 2011

I do not like the way that I feel. I have such grief and sorrow, and don't even talk about anger. I understand that every thing I am feeling is normal, I get it, but I dont like this ugly feeling in me. It is not Christlike and I want it gone.
I am doing everything I know how to have peace and solace, and God takes up the slack and does for me what I just can not.
I know I will heal, been there, done that, but it is my kids...man, why in the world did he have to harm my little girls.
They have grown to be loving, successful women, and I am grateful. They are fabulous Moms to their own kids and I pray my grandkids are safe from all preditors.
I pray for the sick who harm kids. I ask God to heal what ever is so sick and broken in them that they can see a child and think of sexually interfering with them. It boggles my mind and I am horrified at how often this happens.
welcome to the real world eh!
Anyhow, you have no idea how wonderful it is to come and see your kind words. My heart hurts so badly right now, I cry a lot. I saw fathers day cards the other day and I had to go to my car. I felt sick and sad at the same time. Some one sang the old country song "Daddy's hands" at a fund raising concert in our little village. It took on gruesome meaning for me and I felt sick. I pray that anyone who has the sickness is healed of it, is repulsed by it and comes to Christ who forgives all things.
My step Mom turned on me as well. She said that I was to forgive, Jesus forgave...oh but I said, I am not Jesus, my name is Carol and my children were molested. I have to work on healing before I can ever dream of starting to forgive him.
I forgave him for hurting me, but this is different, whole new level....my kids...that is different altogether.
thanks for being out there and listen to me and help me unburden my soul. One day soon, it will turn around and I can be jolly and happy again.
Love to you all.
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    My prayers are with you. emoticon
    3155 days ago
    My heart just breaks for you and your pain. As a mother, I must admit that I am disappointed in your stepmom -- but that's not for me to judge. Anyway, I think you're dealing with this pain as well as anyone could and I am most proud of you for that. Keep hanging in there and know that you are still being kept close to my heart!!

    3155 days ago
    I wish I had something I could say that will help. I am praying for you and your kids. I know you know that the pain does go away, and so will the anger. Keep talking to Jesus, he will help
    lots of emoticon
    3156 days ago
    I will repeat it, it takes time, just let people love you right now. emoticon emoticon emoticon
    3156 days ago
    I have no words of wisdom, just know that you're in my thoughts. emoticon
    3156 days ago
    Consistent prayer every day will one day bring you the desire you are requesting. It does happen. In the meantime a mourning process is what has to happen. May God's arms be felt around you as you move through your day today and always. You and your family are committed to my daily prayers now. emoticon
    3157 days ago
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    Wrapping you in love and prayer...
    3157 days ago
    one day at a time
    3157 days ago
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