Many changes in my LIFE!!!

Tuesday, March 01, 2011

After a year of agony and debate i have finally made and am making changes to my life,these will be for the better for me. First of all My husband of 17 1/2 years and I are getting a divorce. this is because of the mental health issues he has and needs to have more surpervised care. this has been taking a huge toll on my health, and needed to do something to stop the spiral that was going backwards. So this is the first change.

Secondly i have been toying with making a full name change for over the last few years. Well with the divorce I can do just that . so when the divorce is signeby the judge my new name will be Diamondrose Lynette. This i have been toying with when meeting new people for the last 8 months. So this is a change that i'm really lookinf forward too.

And the last change but a good one for me. i have met my Prince Charming or my Knight in shinning Armor. He is a very wonderful loving man. Has been widowed for 7 years, and is a Christian. he also has a 18 year old daughter, who was instrumental in us finding each other. She calls me the MOTHER OF HER HEART! that does my heart glad she feels that way already.

Forthly it will mean i will be moving across the country to a new home, and family and a wedding later this year. So now my plan of action is to focus on myself for the next few weeks and get back into shape, and start moving ahead with the plans and keep going forward in life.

With these new changes i have an incentive to work a bit harder on reaching my goals . Want to lose about 35 pounds by September 1st. i know i can do it and will.

I want to thank all of you for the support and help through the last very trying year of my life. hopefully things will settle down towards the holidays this year a bit. But the excitement of a new family and making a new home and all is going to be good for me in the end.

Stay OP, hydrated find the humor in life, and stay positieve in your thinking. it does work!!!!


judy ann

soon to be


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    I am a new follower. Your posts make me smile. Good for you! emoticon
    3759 days ago
    yes sometime after June will be moving to New york State . but have to do a lot in the mean time to get things ready for that move. . but first sweetie is taking me to Hawaii for two weeks to celebrate and to have a bit of family time together Looking forward to my first vacation in 30 years
    3798 days ago
    Keep us updated. Are you moving to my side of the country?
    3798 days ago
  • JUNEBUG4967
    I am glad to see you taking care of yourself. Sometimes the best for all concerned is to go separate ways and after trying everything, it sounds like you have reached that point. Take care .
    3806 days ago
    no we will be far apart but still friends and i will come out to see him. the new man likes him really well

    3808 days ago
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    Wow! What a change! Will you be sorry to leave your Indian friend? I'm so happy that you've found happiness.
    3808 days ago
  • LADYJ6942
    Congrats and good luck!
    3808 days ago
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