CATLADY_56

SparkPoints
 

Pushed into the corner.

Friday, December 24, 2010

It can only get better, right? I don't feel very Christmasy. My mom's husband - I can't call him step-dad right now - hurt himself. He is on major pain meds and can't take care of mom right now. He is being extremely stubborn and doesn't want to pay for care. I threatened to get a lawyer if he didn't get care in the house. I had to do it. My mom can't be alone. I told them I would move in, but he said "NO". I am so worried about my mom. She hasn't been taking her meds because he is not checking to be sure she does. He knows she won't remember but he won't face facts. I am an emotional wreck. When I called this morning mom sounded really upset. She is usually so compliant and doesn't have much in the way of a negative mood.
Share This Post With Others
Member Comments About This Blog Post
  • LYDIASPURPLE
    I hope and pray there has been improvement since you wrote this. Brava for you for being a persistent advocate for your mom!
    3201 days ago
  • BELLACUDDLES
    I am hoping and praying by now.......all is well!! Hope your new year is a blessed and happy one!


    3213 days ago
  • SNUZSUZ
    The MOST anyone can do is pray for you and your Mom. My prayers are with you.
    3220 days ago
  • BOBBIENORTHERN
    The Holy Spirit will lead you into all truth of exactly what to do before the situation gets too far out of hand. It seems to me that the husband should be put somewhere out of the way. But, that is my personal opinion and not the Lords, please just follow the leading of the Holy Spirit and you will not go wrong and dont forget to let peace be your umpire.
    3221 days ago
  • PASTORWILEY62
    I am praying for wisdom in this area , let the Lord lead you in all ways. Talk to your mom's dr he will help you i know from experience with my dad we had same situation. Do as the lord says.
    3221 days ago
  • FERGSGIRL2
    I am praying for you. Pray for peace within yourself. One thing I truly believe, you cannot make "grown ups" do what they don't want to do. Blessings to you!
    3221 days ago
  • NERVOUSWRECKIAM
    I can only pray for you. Wow. I am so sorry.
    3221 days ago
  • Add Your Comment to the Blog Post

    Log in to post a comment


    Disclaimer: Weight loss results will vary from person to person. No individual result should be seen as a typical result of following the SparkPeople program.
 

More Blogs by CATLADY_56