This is SO unfair!

Friday, November 26, 2010

So yesterday my boyfriend tells me exitingly that he has lost 6lbs without even trying!! And sitting there listening to him going on and on about how great he is (Well i made it sound like that anyway) i dig myself deeper and deeper, he has no issues with food, self esteem, bulimia, bingeing.. You name it i have it, i have the most complicated relationship to food you can find! And im hanging on tooth and nail, fighting every day for this dream of recovery and weight loss and today - 0lbs gone! Its devastating..
I still got into a pretty dress, did my hair, tried to doll up the best i can and talk myself up.. But i might have to throw that scale away.. because if i cant loose the weight he cant either!! LOL...

Why cant i be happy for him, and thats it?! Im a terrible girlfriend.
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    Hang in there!! I know how tough it can be, loosing weight is no pretty picnic! But with hard work and perseverance you WILL get there and be an inspiration to many people! Stick with it! emoticon
    3709 days ago
    I also deal with this often! I swear I have gained the 70lbs my husband has lost since we have been together! This time around I lose 2lbs in a week and now that he has "decided" to lose weight he woke up 5lbs lighter the next day! literally!
    3709 days ago
    I hear a little jealousy and perhaps a little vainess...its all good. Hang in there my dear friend because if you do the pounds will melt away. emoticon
    3709 days ago
    Hahah! I wouldnt want my man to lose the weight before me either! Completely normal and your not a bad person for it..your just a woman! LOL Keep at it hun it'll come off! xxxx emoticon
    3709 days ago
    It is so frustrating to be trying hard and see no results! AARGH! I threw out my scale a year ago...couldn't face it anymore...My husband loses weight so easily! Sometimes he will vary 5 lbs in a day! Tough it out...it will be worth it in the end...and all of the sudden you will step on that scale, and you too will have lost 6 lbs! Now, go feed that boyfriend of yours a big bowl of ice cream! LOL! emoticon
    3709 days ago
  • LOUANN22
    I understand where your coming from. But its natural for us bigger women to feel somewhat jealous when it comes easier to others. Guess thats what gives us the motivation to work harder for what we want. GO US lol emoticon
    3709 days ago
    Smells like jelousy in here. It's a funny scenerio to me since I normally see it the other way around. Normally guys don't want the women to put on weight. hahaha
    3709 days ago
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