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Are people trying to make me feel bad?

Monday, August 30, 2010

Argh.. every single day on the bus, someone ALWAYS sits with me... even though there are other seats... and whoever happens to sit with me, ALWAYS lets out a big ole sigh.. and shifts around and sighs again, cause i am taking up more than just my share of the seat.. well wtf did you sit with me for?!

I am just tired of this happening every single day..and then, if i just sit in the seat on the side,(like to not let anyone sit with me) i would get dirty looks like I should move over.

Like I have lost 75 pounds but get the looks of "omg, lose some weight ya fat cow, you are taking up 2 seats".. just so frustrating. :(

Anyone else feel this way? I just needed to vent.
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  • BBWKITTEN
    Thanks everyone!! Just saw the comments now. :)
    3888 days ago
  • LIBBYFITZ
    They have the problem! Let them own it! emoticon
    3906 days ago
  • SUGARBABY60
    Did you know that "Fat Cows" are desirable? They give more milk, they taste better when cooked over an open fire, on round ups the cowboys always liked to let the cows take their time and graze so they would bring more money at the sales.The next time you are tempted to refer to yourself as a "Fat Cow"just remember how valuable one is and how valuable YOU are!Congratulations on your wt loss that has been a lot of hard work, just ask me I know! emoticon
    3906 days ago
  • HEALTHYASHLEY
    I feel like that too. Now that my self esteem has improved I am rude back. Try staring at them as they get close. They will sit somewhere else.
    3906 days ago
  • TRACYZABELLE
    Put your bag on the seat next to you
    3906 days ago
  • JANTWO
    You are beautiful and don't forget it!!!!
    3908 days ago
  • BBWKITTEN
    Thanks everyone! Just so frustrating..
    3908 days ago
  • no profile photo DIANNED4
    Venting is good for the soul! I hope you felt better once you vented to your SP Friends. I'm truly sorry that there are people in this world who are so prejudice to so many things including overweight people. I know when I was riducled and walked all over when I was shy and way over-weight, I never said a word, just took it. Then one day, I realized that I was better - way better - than these people. I spoke my mind to the worst offender and pretty much said I would flatten her out. That was the end of the bullying and the teasing. I'm not sure if speaking your mind and trying to EDUCATE these type of people will work for you, but know that you are not alone. Also, I truly believe that every dog has their day. Their day is coming.
    3908 days ago
  • no profile photo CD1097825
    I used to feel like this, but once I turned 40 I just didn't care any more. You have just as much right to be on that bus as anyone else, and if they don't like it, that's too bad. I recommend setting in the aisle seat with your stuff piled in the seat next to you, or just eat a lot of cabbage and beans. Then your size will be the least of their concerns! emoticon
    3908 days ago
  • LANIYA1
    You know what...forget and disregard those people!!! Some people are just so inconsiderate! Remember "hurt people, hurt people!" It's not you, it's them! Because why would they sit with you and make gestures and sounds if there are other seats available. Continue to work hard to accomplish your goals.
    3908 days ago
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