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Saturday, July 03, 2010

just want to thank each and everyone of you beautiful people here for all your comments,support and always being there for me.theese last few days have been very difficult for me and i know i still have a lot to work out.zakariya since this has happened has been having nightmares and has been sleeping in our bed .he says he is afraid to be alone even though he shares his room with ayyub.as i said i have zakariya´s side of the story but not the boys who did this so we still don´t know why they did this.i am not very pleased how the after school club is dealing with this.wzhen i havwe asked them questions i am getting very vague answers or no answers at all.i said i want an appointment so we can go over this and they said it is very difficult this week they might have time on thursday.i said i want answers before then and i am not going to wait that long for answers,they wont give me details on the phone.he said he has all the information now and that the children have to do a school work for punishment(what school work they didn´t say)and that zakariya can pick something he wants as a apology(also not sure what he means by that)i get the impression they think with that the problem is sorted out)anyway he has agreed to give me a few minutes when io pick zakariya up.i would prefer a seperate meeting where we could probably talk about it than by the classroom door where all the kids and their parents can hear or interupt.will let you all now what they say on monday but i seem to be getting more and more angry about it.then you hear something about somebody else and it makes all your problems less significant and you see despite everything you are lucky and should be thankful for small mercies.for thoes of you who haven´t heard diane from the pink ninjas in the blc challange 12 years old son lost his battle with his cancer .my heart goes out to her and her family,she is in our thoughts and prayers and i hope allah give her the strength to help see her through this difficult time and ask other people to keep her and her family inher prayers.we should all thank god for all our small mercies and never take for granted all that we have.i thank you once again for reading this blog.
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    Prayers for your son, that he fully recovers mentally from the incident. For you to have the strength and determination to advocate for your son, and for peace with the resolution. Bullying is out of hand and is a frightful event for anyone, particularly a special needs child that does not have the same resources as a typical kid to defend him/her self with.
    I am saddened that your friend's son lost his battle with cancer. I can't imagine the heartache.
    Keep strong in the Lord (Allah). emoticon
    2849 days ago
    Dont give up the fight! Stay strong for your kids sake! They could have killed him if they werent stopped--I mean they didnt even stop when a mother came, that shows MAJOR problems. Their parents need a wake up call!

    May Allah give you patience and strength.
    2849 days ago
    Karen, what a strong woman you are!! (that's all I need to say)... emoticon emoticon
    2849 days ago
    Hey, Karen! I'm so sorry to read about all the stuff that's been going on! I pray it gets sorted soon. I know from what my parents have told me that it's hard for parents when their children are having rough times, especially when it's due to being bullied or picked on or the like.
    2849 days ago
    I am sorry to hear about the trouble at your son's school !
    Your poor son !
    Hopefully, things can get resolved, soon !
    I'm also sorry to hear of the 12-year-old boy who died of cancer !
    That's always sad.
    My prayers are with his family !
    I hope you'll have a good week !
    2850 days ago
    Keep at it with them, school boards let too much slide
    2850 days ago
  • SHERRY257
    I am shocked no one was suspended. I understand you want answers--I would! Hopefully the nightmares will end soon. I really feel for your son and you. emoticon
    2850 days ago
    Sweetie ~ we are always here for you!!!! Hang in there & stand your ground!!!! Get the answers that you need!!!!
    Hugzz ~ Jae emoticon
    2850 days ago
    Karen, I hope you get some much needed answers on Monday. This has to be so frustrating for you that they are dragging their heels about giving you any answers. Try to enjoy your weekend!
    2851 days ago
    Where I work there was an instance of bullying and all the boys we caught were expelled for a week! This despite the fact that no was no physical contact, just words said and a pair of shoes thrown in the toilet. The whole group was punished. (Or at least all those we were able to identify.) Parents were called in, the boys were asked to write a reflection, and they were banned for a week.

    (This was not at a school though. It was a community center.)
    2851 days ago
    I am so sorry to hear Zakariya is still having night mare's ...Perhaps some advice from your doctor would help.. He might need help in some way...
    I m also so sorry to hear of your friends 12 yrs old son passing away .. that is such a tragedy... please pass on my prayers ... I think these people at the afterschool care will try and brush this problem under the carpet ... It will be all to hard for them ...
    I respect your need to find out why ... and what exactly happened? but I think by punishing the lads that did this ... is their way of saying it is all over and finished ...
    I am praying for you all, to get over this very trying and upsetting time ...If it were me in these circumstances, I would be hopping mad too!
    Much love Susie

    2851 days ago

    Comment edited on: 7/3/2010 5:49:43 AM
    they would as well in england and if this was not there first offence like i know is the case with two of the boys they would be exspelled.
    2851 days ago
  • MUSIC66
    that is so sad about that 12 year old boy .i also hope your son gets over his night mares . i also hope you get the answers you wan from the after scchool club as well sounds as those boys weren,t punished enough.here in australia they suspened school bullies.
    2851 days ago
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