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Heart to heart with my son

Saturday, June 19, 2010

Today was a good day.
A very good day.
Although I woke with back pain in the middle of the night - to which I responded by doing my back physical therapy exercises and fell back to sleep, I still got a decent 7 hours of sleep. Then, I did my stretching, strengthening, weights PT routine all over again when I woke up for real. (I only did the stretching in the middle of the night). Had a quick banana, then rode my recumbent bike for 5.2 miles.
Then, it was off to a couple stores to get a Father's Day gift along with my 17 year old before he went off to his friends' and jam session with his band.

We had the chance to talk, to really really talk. School is out for the summer for him, and I can sense his relief. He is going into his junior year in high school. Considering he is 17, and a boy, he exhibits a lot of wisdom most boys his age do not show. We covered a wide range of topics, including the recent break up and heart ache he recently suffered, and is recovering from quite well. Like I said, he has a lot of wisdom for a teenager.

We picked up a game for my husband, and stopped for a very quick lunch. Though he pretty much has sworn off of fast food, he had a "kids" meal because it was smaller, and he does not eat the burgers. I had a side salad, and a bottle of water.

The conversation came around to my weight loss.
"Mom, I can tell you have really lost a lot of weight."
"Thank you, Danny."
"Not to offend you or anything, but last year your boobs blended in with your stomach."
"No offense, and I know. I have a waist now."
"And mom, it seems like your fitness is now a hobby for you."
"I guess."
"Well you used to be playing video games a lot, now you are exercising, or playing wii fit."
"The games were an escape when dad was so sick. Thank you for lending me your wii."
"No problem, mom."

It may seem kind of funny that my son and I could talk that way, but we can without the discussions seeming crude. We can talk open and honest about a great many subjects, and I thank God that we do have a good relationship that we can talk.

Then, when we were walking by a plate glass window at a store I looked. I mean I really really looked, and it is so true. I have a waist. And the said boobs are definitely smaller than a year ago.

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  • no profile photo KELLIE6446
    emoticon I overhear a lot of conversations, I would have loved this one in real-time :-) you're doing a GREAT job, I'm sure there will be many more conversations like that............... too good!
    3400 days ago
  • ALIMESSA
    Sons are so special! I've got one of my own that I cherish and can talk to very openly! Sounds like you are a great mom and he is a great kid...you are both lucky to have eachother!

    As always,
    Stay Strong!!
    3401 days ago
  • LOOZINITNOW
    That is great! It is so wonderful when our kids encourage our success!
    3402 days ago
  • CALIMAN1
    what a special relationship you have with your son...hold him tight and long, and always make time for those kodak chats!
    3402 days ago
  • BARBARAROCKSIT
    LOVE the new photo's on your page!

    Keep rockin' the journey!

    Being able to really talk with your kids is a gift .. Glad you recognize it

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    3402 days ago
  • ALLIEINSHAPE
    So good to have that honest and open discussion and positive relationship with your son, esp at that age. Nice of him to make positive comments about your weight loss.

    3402 days ago
  • BIGBADMOMMABEAR
    Very nice you have a good relationship with your son!
    3402 days ago
  • AML05030
    Boobs that don't blend into a stomach.. that seems like a great goal for everyone.
    3402 days ago
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