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So I Don't Fit Into His Plans. The End.

Wednesday, June 02, 2010

Yep. Close the book. Art Guy doesn't want to see me anymore. I don't fit into his plans. There's no other girl or anything (for the record, he says) he just needs to be alone and figure things out and work on himself. And I didn't even get it in person. I got an email letter. And then we went back and forth a couple of times. He likes me too much and I don't fit into his plans at the moment. So we went nowhere. I don't understand why we can't be grown ups and friends since we get along so well. Whatever. Not my call. I guess that's it. Sorry for the sad ending guys.
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    SweetPea, I am so sorry that he is too scared to move forward.

    YOU ARE AWESOME! Of course his decision has nothing to do with you, despite it impacting you.

    You just learned early on that this isnt the guy for you.

    NEXT! You deserve SO much more Sunshine!

    3244 days ago
    You have become an even more beautiful girl than before, and you will definately find your prince charming. You deserve to be treated like a princess. emoticon
    3245 days ago
    Oh, Lissa! I'm sorry to read about this! Too many people use email as an easy escape these days. I know that some things are really hard in person, but that's far too easy. He should've at least told you in person. My heart is absolutely breaking for you, girl! I know how much you really & truly care about him. emoticon
    3245 days ago
  • BELIEVE1974 sorry to hear this news today. You are worth so much more than the way you are being treated by him right now. You have proved through your weight loss that you are a very strong person. You will get through this, and i agree with everyone else, keep your eyes open girl, someone better is just around the corner..and one day soon you will see that all he was was a little bump along the way..Take care Sweetie. Hugs!!!
    3245 days ago
    So sorry to hear this. You deserve, and will find, better! HAng in there!
    3245 days ago
    God has something better for you in his plans! Keep your chin up.
    3245 days ago
    I'm sorry hun that sucks. Well maybe he isn't used to dating someone his age that is actually normal and wants the same things,etc. Instead of the immature little girls that he's used to I guess. There are other fish in the sea and your gorgeous you'll find the right guy who knows maybe down the road you'll fit into his plans.
    3245 days ago

    I concur with a LOT of what peeps have already told you!!! Especially the fact that he did it over an email?!! Are you serious, what would he have done 20 years ago...just never call you again? It really puts into perspective his lack of "maturity"...I'm a firm believer that we get hints about a person through "stages" and it is up to us as individuals as to whether we are able to let that particular behavior "slide" or not! My hubby still doesn't close the shower curtain...for some reason it is so darn difficult for him...and now instead of saying anything "better to be happy then to always be right" I just close it on my own.

    He saved you the time and the "emotions" by revealing himself now...I promise when you aren't looking and when you least expect it...IT will happen for you!!

    Keep that chinny-chin-chin up!!!

    Big Hugs,
    Carrie emoticon
    3245 days ago
    Sorry to hear. Chalk that one up to a learning experience. So God must have something much better in the works for you. Email break up is a cowardly way out. Keep your head up.

    3245 days ago
  • no profile photo MIRACLEINSIXTY
    sorry that really sucks. we are all here for you. :(

    and i know this is SUPER cliche, but there are plenty more fish in the sea. and plenty of them are more considerate and more mature.
    3245 days ago
    Very sorry to hear this. Hang in there emoticon
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  • JODIANN421
    I'm very sorry to hear that, but truth be told he showed you his true colors (ie email break up) so is he really worth worrying over? Hang in there . You are a strong beautiful woman!
    3245 days ago
    Hang in there - big hugs!!!! I'm sending you an email : )
    3245 days ago
  • no profile photo ALICEART2010
    WOW! That was unexpected. He likes you too much but can't tell you in person? Sounds like a cheap excuse.

    My ex did that to me, sent me a divorce request on e-mail because he was a loozer. Okay, so that's much worse but still. It reminds me of the "Sex in the City" episode where that guy dumps Carrie on a post-it note and she freaks out, my favorite episode. Then she gets caught "smoking a doobie". LOL.

    If he doesn't change his mind and try to come back!
    3245 days ago
  • MRE1956
    A pox on that bozo for how he low-rent and're FAR better off w/o that in your life.....
    3245 days ago
    Boys mature much slower than grls....probably why he has dated "silly 21 year old" girls in the past.
    3245 days ago
    So sorry to hear about the sad ending...but to me sounds like he isn't ready to get into a relationship and has a few hang-ups...Maybe it is for the best that you find this out now!! You seem so mature and ready for what life throws you...I hope this door as it closes opens an even more AMAZING Window!! I hope that your day goes as well as possible!! :) (((((((Big Hugs))))))))

    3245 days ago
    Sorry to hear that xx
    3246 days ago
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