My weekend--plus a family secret!

Sunday, February 21, 2010

also talking about why marriage is not in my immediate plans. Someday it will be!
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    Hi missy.. I have to comment on your planning a wedding while living 2.5 hours away. I planned mine and me & Maurice lived 3.5 hours away. As a matter of fact, I stayed where I was 4 more months AFTER our wedding lol.. It was odd, but it worked. We bought a house while I was away also lol.. Not something I would suggest, it was way to rushed. lol But it worked! :-)

    I hope you have a great week (Im sure you will) and Ill be back sooner or later.. LOVE having my sis here with me. I sure did miss her!

    Anyway, be good and chat soon..

    2981 days ago
    Hey you! I'm sorry i've been MIA for a while. My schedule has been so weird and I had so many things pop up last week that nothing was on track and my workouts were basically nonexistant.
    Congratulations to your cousin! That's awesome! I've been married for over 3 and 1/2 years and I got married when I was 18 after only knowing my husband for 6 months. Some might say that I was too young or didn't wait long enough, but it seems to me that when you know, you know. I'm not trying to say you should get married, right here, right now! But what I would like to say is that my husband and I entered into marriage understanding that it wouldn't be easy, that we'd drive each other insane, but that no matter what, we were making a commitment to God and to each other. That means putting each other first (above ALL else, including yourself) and understanding that divorce is unacceptable. If you enter into marriage thinking "Well, if he isn't ____ to me/ for me then I can just get out" you're so much more likely to give in to that temptation to separate.
    I don't mean this to sound like a lecture, just something to think about!! Marriage can be awesome and beautiful, but committment is necessary! I'm sure I've got so much more to learn considering we're only coming up on 4 years.
    Anyway, I'm hoping to get back on track with the workouts and finally get those stinking 2 pounds off!!!!!
    2982 days ago
    Yay!! at least the family secret is a good secret!! Congrats to him!! You should get married whenever you feel the time is right for you!! Glad you had a great time with your cousin!! I wish I was close to my cousins, unfortunatly, I am the oldest and I don't really relate with any mine since they are all younger.
    2982 days ago
    You're not cynical. I have yet another friend who's getting divorced. You are wise to tread carefully.
    2982 days ago
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