7,000-8,499 SparkPoints 7,230

Having one of those melt down days.

Wednesday, February 17, 2010

My Grandmother who is 83 was the victim of Identity Theft & Elder abuse at the hands of my manipulative brother and his wife! Yes they are "Druggies" METH...
My brother struck a "deal" with the DA and only served 42 days in jail- the wife only served a day!! The debit that is still outstanding will not be paid by my brother and his wife!!!!As that was not included in this deal..
Plus the $$$ my grandparents had saved- over $550,000.00 is now gone-
I received a call from one of the many credit card company that is still owed money today and they are now going to pursue legal action against my grandmother for the debit left- just this card is over $37, 500.00--The jerk on the phone didn't care that the debit was not created by my grandmother all he cared about was when he could get the $$ and close the case- if she couldn't send money, they would be putting a lien on her property!!! Which is the only thing she has left!!!
Just having a melt down and really want to EAT!!!!!!!!!! So instead of choosing to eat, I thought I would just get it out of my system this way! Not as good as eating a piece of candy or bread!!LOL
I know this will pass things will get better it is just the journey to get there!

From our Local Paper:
"37 year old Rodney Louis Pief is this week's "Most Wanted" by the Tuolumne County Sheriff's Office.

Pief has brown hair and hazel eyes. He is five feet eight inches tall and weighs approximately 187 pounds.

Pief is wanted on felony charges of elder identity theft and burglary, misdemeanor charges of theft, possession of drug paraphernalia and disorderly conduct. "

Just hard for me to understand how he & his wife are out there living their life sponging off someone else and my grandmother is stuck with all this debit and "crap"- To top it off he only served 42 days in jail-what a crock!!!!! UGH
Share This Post With Others
Member Comments About This Blog Post
    Thanks Everyone for the words of encouragement!!! I really appreciate it♥
    FIVEFOOTMAMA I will look into that as we did speak with the DA and their office suggested a civil suit. Thank you so much for the information!!!
    3015 days ago
    Is there anyway you can press charges for the debt on her behalf? Sounds like the judge wasn't very thorough and his ruling could be overturned and revisited. I'd talk to a lawyer or have your grandmother talk to a lawyer. Even easier if he hasn't finished his 42 days in jail, but I'm sure there's something that can be done.

    The rampant Meth use in this town makes me really sad, even sadder when our "justice" system works in their favor. I'm sorry to hear about all of this. But know that instead of emotionally eating, you venting here IS a great move.

    Deep breath, talk a lawyer, I'm sure there's a loophole that can be used to really see some justice here.
    3016 days ago
  • LAURA95368
    That's AWFUL! I am so sorry. Good for you on having the will power to vent here rather than eat... I'm thinking I would want to do some boxing if I was in the same position. There has to a be someway to make this right, so unfair! Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers.
    3016 days ago
    Wow. I am really sorry, life just doesn't make any sense sometimes. Be strong, somehow things will turn around for you and your grandmother. In the meantime maybe you should take a boxing class and pretend the bag is your loser brother. emoticon
    3017 days ago
    And they say soap operas are so unreal. Life is always more like a soap opera.I feel for you and want you to stay strong. Taking care of YOU is your top priority and that way you will be able to think more clearly and act accordingly.Tomorrow will be a better day-
    3017 days ago
  • Add Your Comment to the Blog Post

    Log in to post a comment

    Disclaimer: Weight loss results will vary from person to person. No individual result should be seen as a typical result of following the SparkPeople program.

More Blogs by 67SKIFREAK