Tuesday, January 26, 2010

Ok so oooooooo

i was sitting here and got and instant attitude thinking about my so called friend for 4 years now!
why is that men think when they say or ask/ want you to do something you have to do it!

i have come to a point in my life that sex is not necessary and when i want it i will call you don't press me out forit!

so he asked me to come over i said no he asks me why not??????

before i new it i said where the hell do they do that at question me!!!! no means NO!!!

you don't live close i don't want to be bothered!!!!

and the sorry bastard has not called since i told him i was not in the mood to have sex nor come over...that i was focusing on improving my life moving forward!

i was working on improving my relationship with God making me a better person!

why did i say know men try to pick at you for your business LOL!
so his response was IF YOU HAVE ANOTHER MAN SAY SO!!!

men say they want the truth but they can't handle nor except it!
i wasted my breath!!! LOL

i have mastered how to get men off the phone just tell them your not in the mood to have sex and your not coming over and they will get off of your phone quickly!!! LOL

I am at a point in my life where i am focusing on me and my kids!! i am focusing on my Life!!
i get enough headaches and worriation from my kids and if i want to be lied to i can get that from them!!!

no not all men are they same!!!

Trick/Games are for kids and i can play them with my kids not a grown man!!!
i know my kids won't CHEAT ON ME!!!

i am at a point in my life where i have zero tolerance!!!!

I can be single and happy & when i want sex i call you!!! Like they do us!!! LOL!
but men don't like that! LOL

i don't treat all men the same and im not saying there are no good men out there im not looking for a man if God sends him to me so be it but until


until i get me together there is no point for a man!!!


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  • TAMIA1575
    Girl, I know how it is. I have spent the last two years being single, focusing on my kids, and on my goals. I don't date and I don't do sex. I am amazing, I am awesome, and I am not a booty call...I KNOW I deserve better!

    God is where it's at girl so stick with Him!

    As for the sex and dating crap, if a relationship can't survive and thrive without sex, it won't last with it. Just my opinoin on the whole thing! LOL

    You just keep taking care of you and yours!
    4109 days ago
  • DIANE929
    AMEN TA THAT...This is exactly how I feel....I have been true to me for 7 months...Told the fool's I was dealin with I am not interested and gonna be on my,**time of tha month** for the next year or so!!! emoticon I have been at peace more in this time than ever....God can be my husband....till I find or God brings me a good man....Imma be cool just like this...I can do me....and take care of MY needs...MY wants...What I have to do to get MYSELF in order!So I agree with you 100%!!!lol... emoticon Diane
    4145 days ago
    So much truth to what you said. There are a few boys, not men, that will call me or text me thinking that maybe they can get some from me...even when they never got any from me in the first place.

    One says he wants to be friends and would like to see if something develops, yet he doesn't want to meet out for dinner or anything. That is BS! Stupid boys!!
    4150 days ago
    :-) you tell'em girl!

    I've never known any man to truly want the truth. When you give it to them they get mad and dont want to hear or act like you never said it before.

    Yet if you hand out the truth like bread crumbs then they dont get the whole picture and keep hanging around.

    Once had a guy who couldn't HEAR and broke up with him twice and he had to see me pregnant and know that it was someone elses to finally realize it wasn't going to happen. Didn't wanna rub his nose in it like that but after breaking up with him and he just wouldnt go away after getting the speech twice I gave up being subtle.
    4150 days ago
  • APPLE0416
    emoticon So true
    4170 days ago
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