Those d*** Hot flashes and PMS

Well it's 5:00 am and I woke up at 3:00 am soaking wet. On top of all that I am going through menopause and still trying to have a period. I have been dealing with those nasty cramps and bloating for 4 days now which sucks b/c it has totally messed up with my exercise pattern. Use to be a time when I would pray for this thing to not happen but as of now I am praying that it comes on soon. I am sick of all the bloating, cramps, and all the extra nasty stuff that goes with it, Worst part of this all is we will be leaving in 1 day to go on vacation. Of all places its going to be Ocean city. Once again I will say It's times like this that I hate being a woman.