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Farewell Letter From Gabriel Garcia Marquez

Sunday, May 31, 2009

Gabriel Garcia Marquez, famous writer from Colombia, and Nobel Peace Prize winner for literature, has retired from public life for reasons of health. He has a form of cancer which is terminal. He has sent a farewell letter to his friends and it has been circulated around the Internet.

It is recommended reading because it is moving to see how one of the most brilliant of writers expresses himself with sorrow. He says:

If God, for a second, forgot what I have become and granted me a little bit more of life, I would use it to the best of my ability. I wouldn't, possibly, say everything that is in my mind, but I would be more thoughtful of all I say. I would give merit to things not for what they are worth, but for what they mean to express. I would sleep little, I would dream more, because I know that for every minute that we close our eyes, we waste sixty seconds of light. I would walk while others stop; I would awake while others sleep. If God would give me a little bit more of life, I would dress in a simple manner, I would place myself in front of the sun, leaving not only my body, but my soul naked at its mercy. To all men I would say how mistaken they are when they think that they stop falling in love when they grow old, without knowing that they grow old when they stop falling in love. I would give wings to children, but I would leave it to them to learn how to fly by themselves. To old people I would say that death doesn't arrive when they grow old, but with forgetfulness.

I have learned so much with you all, I have learned that everybody wants to live on top of the mountain, without knowing that true happiness is obtained in the journey taken and the form used to reach the top of the hill. I have learned that when a newborn baby holds, with its little hand, his father's finger, it has trapped him for the rest of his life.

I have learned that a man has the right and obligation to look down at another man, only when that man needs help to get up from the ground. Say always what you feel, not what you think. If I knew that today is the last time that that I am going to see you asleep, I would hug you with all my strength and I would pray to the Lord to let me be the guardian angel of your soul. If I knew that these are the last moments to see you, I would say 'I love you'. There is always tomorrow, and life gives us another opportunity to do things right, but in case I am wrong, and today is all that is left to me, I would love to tell you how much I love you and that I will never forget you.

Tomorrow is never guaranteed to anyone, young or old. Today could be the last time to see your loved ones, which is why you mustn't wait; do it today, in case tomorrow never arrives. I am sure you will be sorry you wasted the opportunity today to give a smile, a hug, a kiss, and that you were too busy to grant them their last wish.

Keep your loved ones near you; tell them in their ears and to their faces how much you need them and love them. Love them and treat them well; take your time to tell them 'I am sorry';' forgive me',' please' 'thank you', and all those loving words you know. Nobody will know you for your secret thought. Ask the Lord for wisdom and strength to express them. Show your friends and loved ones how important they are to you.

Send this letter to those you love. If you don't do it today...tomorrow will be like yesterday, and if you never do it, it doesn't matter, either, the moment to do it is now.

For you, With much love,

Your Friend,

Gabriel Garcia Marquez
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  • CAROLYN4033
    Dearest Maha,

    Once again you have me deep in thought. I too agree with Keith, you are a loving teacher and I know I am a better person because of you and your teachings. So thank you for sharing this letter with me today.

    Peace and Love,
    3308 days ago
    Beauty in it's purest form. Thank you for sharing this loving message, it has touch my heart.

    3308 days ago
    There is so much in here, and it mostly boils down to giving as much love as you can to everyone you meet - every chance you get -- and give yourself more chances ...
    So, in case my journey ends today, let me tell you, MAHA, how glad I am we stumbled into one another on this journey. You are a loving teacher, and my life is much better for having you as a part of it. Consider yourself hugged and kissed.

    ........... emoticon emoticon ..........

    "true happiness is obtained in the journey taken and the form used to reach the top of the hill. " I hope that I can travel with a little more dignity and a lot more love today.
    3308 days ago
    There is a beautiful organic-ness to his love -- "Tell them in their ears and to their faces". It reminds me of how I have often hoped to live as long as I fully alive and not a moment more.
    3308 days ago
    3308 days ago
    And, again, it all comes down to love...
    thank you, Maha, for sharing this beautiful letter.

    3308 days ago
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