Coz you gotta have FRIENDS!!
Thursday, February 26, 2009
Well it has been quite a week. Alot of changes going on. We went thru this about a month ago and now One of my teams finds itself in the same predictament. The people on this team are very precious to me. They listen and offer suggestions for my lifestyle journey and offer the same when I find myself having a personnal Problem. They are always there. To lift me up .
We are now at a crossroads. What to do next. We have been accused of bullying and having a mob mentality. Well, that is the furthest thing from the truth. One question was asked that went against what had been decided by one person, and all was downhill from there. I never realized that stating your opinion , even tho it goes against the grain, was a bad thing. That is all it was. Our opinion against One other persons. For some reason it wasn't ok to question what was going to happen.
I guess I'm not sure why sending someone nasty mail isn't considered to a bad thing. The person who wrote the email knows who they are and to whom it was sent. It was very hurtful and not at all necessary. We were told that if we had a beef with someone, to let them know thru the email. I guess that would be ok for some, but I really think being cruel to someone is not. I choose to say what I think so that all can hear. That way my words cannot be misconstrued or changed. You all know how word of mouth is. The story is always worse the farther down the line it goes.
The time for us to heal is now. I had to write this to get what I thought off my chest. I am tired of all of us getting the backlash . Look in the mirror, if you want to see bullying, well that reflection will show you the biggest bully of them all.
Now we will move forward. This time in our lives is over. No more Adminisdtrative Dictatorship for this team. We are there for and with each other.