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I married the right man

Monday, December 08, 2008

Have you ever had one of those conversations that changes the way you look at things? For quite awhile I've thought that the reason behind the things I do was one thing, when it turns out it's something else entirely!

This revelation hasn't necessarily changed my life at the current moment. I still have to wrestle my own demons. But now I know what they truly are! I feel like I've been lying to myself this whole time.

I always feel the need to justify myself to those around me. (Mostly because certain people in my life demand it). I wish I could feel good about cutting them out of my life, but that's just not the kind of person I am. I don't think I could do that to someone, no matter how awful they are to me. But luckily I am married to the best man in the whole world. He opens my eyes to see things from new perspectives. He comforts me when others hurt me. He doesn't allow me to let others completely derail me.

I hope everyone finds someone that makes them feel this good.

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  • EAGLE3_8
    I understand completely. Even though I am much older than you, I met and married my current husband almost 10 years ago. He is Literally, "my better half". Congrats to you and may you have all the joy and happiness that you deserve for years to come. emoticon
    4246 days ago
    Good to see u blog.I am sure u did marry the best guy for u. Hope things going well.Busy here getting ready for Christmas ;people come and go from our lives and sometimes we just have to let them go. emoticon
    4255 days ago

    Comment edited on: 12/20/2008 9:22:01 PM
  • no profile photo CD1338628
    Aw! That is so sweet. Having such a great support system is so essential! I am so glad you have that!
    4262 days ago
    Amber, You are blessed! And I am touched to hear about how supportive and loving your husband is. You deserve to be loved that way.
    4264 days ago
    That's awesome hun! He's your shelter through the storm :) Very uplifting, thanks for sharing!
    4265 days ago
  • no profile photo CD1181809
    I married the right man too! We've been married for 8 years yesterday & I am more in love with him today than I was 8 years ago. He is my best friend and biggest encourager! I love him!!! I'm so happy you got the right man too!
    4265 days ago
    So many people are getting divorced these days, so it was so uplifing to read this blog. I'm glad you found your true soulmate for life. I feel the same way about my husband. :)
    4265 days ago
    I'm getting married in 10 months... but we've been together for 4 yrs, so I'm pretty sure I've got a winner on my hands too. I'm so glad you have the support you need. It's so important...

    Jibbie, my gosh, I'm so sorry to hear this.
    4266 days ago
  • JIBBIE49
    4267 days ago

    Comment edited on: 1/20/2009 2:30:49 AM
  • BKP4166
    I have to agree with you on this one...I wouldn't even consider another man and after 47 years...that's a positive statement. Even when things get tough...I'll keep him. emoticon
    4267 days ago
    WHAT A COINCIDENCE!!! I married the right man, too!

    We're amazing.
    4267 days ago
  • DEBANNE1124
    So glad you are content and things are going jsut right for you.
    4267 days ago
  • KAT111778
    I got me one of them too. Way to go! :)
    4267 days ago
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