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Tuesday, December 02, 2008

uuughhhh.... am I the only one sick of hearing people whine and moan? Wahhh wahhh wahhh... woah is me, I am the only person in the world with problems, the only person to have to work, the only person who gets picked on, used by a boss etc etc etc....
No one else can possibly have so many problems, such a whacked family, such a crappy job.
I should get stuff for free, cause I have it so tough. Everyone should feel sorry for me.
To borrow a page from the Eagles, GET OVER IT!
We all have crap in our lives, deal with it. I am not listening to you whine and not get off your butt to change it. i am not a magic worker, I am a friend. I am sorry life gets tough, think mine isn't either? I just don't dump on people about things I know they cannot change for me. If I don't like something, I will change what I can and deal with the rest.
I am where I am by decisions I made, or let be made for me.

Well, so much for being more tolerant and patient this season. I think I blew it already.

Dear Santa, ya might as well skip this house this year.
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    I agree, it is nice they want to come to me. But at the time I was being surrounded by whiny people who didn't to want to admit that where they are in life was their own fault, and the only way to get out and get better was to quit the bellyaching and change some things.
    Instead they chose to sit and blame everyone else for their issues and want to be given what they felt was their due.
    Had had it......
    3356 days ago
    i agree with what everyone is saying, but mostly what holygrl721 said. i was never really one to whine or tell people what i felt and by the time i did get it off my chest its to late cuz i usually got into trouble when i did. i'm still that way but i just don't get into trouble anymore i just open up and cry on holy's shoulder. i know i would feel better if i told her what was bothering me right away but it is very hard for me to open up my heart to let her know what i am feeling. and boy am i glad she's always there for me cuz if she wasn't i wouldn't have anyone to help me through my bad times.
    3356 days ago
  • HOLYGRL721
    Hope I don't get flamed for leaving two sides to this but here goes
    I understand it can get frustrating emoticon to keep hearing people complain and not seem to do anything about it. I don't know what or who you were talking about so this is not intended for anyone specific. this is life and there's always gonna be a whiner out there who takes whining to a new level and you just want to duck tape their mouth shut I mean, It can make you depressed yourself to hear about that stuff over and over.....
    but here comes the but
    Isn't that what being a friends about???? emoticon being able to vent to your friends. sometimes there's nothing you can do about a situation your in but it always makes me feel better when I can go to a friend for a shoulder to cry on so to speak.
    sometimes its not a matter of can you fix this for me as much as that person just needs someone to say "that sucks I wish I could help but I cant but I'm your friend and i'm here when you need me"

    3356 days ago
    I feel ya! lol I'm experiencing some of that too. Hey, just an f.y.i., it's kind of hard to see the print on your page due to the dark blue. You might want to lighten up your font color.
    3428 days ago
    Doesn't it make you feel better? That's what I love about these blogs. You can yell and scream and vent to people who won't make you feel like scum.
    3451 days ago
    Aren't you glad you got that off your chest!!!!! emoticon
    3455 days ago
    Sweetie, this is life but hopefully you will run into a better class of people & soon. It seems to be making you cynical but thanks for showing my life is GREAT! emoticon emoticon
    3457 days ago
    you are TOOOO cute!!!! I got one of those too. Got mad at me for calling him out. Oh well!!!
    3458 days ago
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