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We're going to a party...

Saturday, July 19, 2008

Tonight is the big party my stepdaughter has been planning to celebrate her dad's (my DH's) 60th and her grandmother's (my MIL's) 80th birthdays.

It's turned into a family reunion, with people flying and driving in from all over to attend. The big celebration was supposed to be a surprise, but neither of them would cooperate with the "we're just going to have a small party" planning.

My hubby was being especially difficult - don't know why. He didn't want anyone invited for his birthday part at all; so, after much thought, I didn't! Aubrey and Mike are coming; without Scott, I don't have any other family. His family, on the other hand, is huge (and a little intimidating!).

I'm not exactly dreading tonight, but it may be tough... my emotions are so raw now, not just because of Scott's loss. My DH has been driving me crazy!!! Our 8th anniversary was yesterday, but I am just too worn out emotionally (and still weak from the food poisoning) to "enjoy" it.

I hope he'll finally understand I don't have the patience and tolerance I once had. I admit, his "moods" are very rare, and before Scott's death, they weren't a problem for me. Turning 60 has to be some kind of emotional for him, but he's definitely in denial about it. Didn't mean for this to become a rant on him...

TONIGHT: a limo will pick us up at 6 pm; there'll be a catered buffet in a banquet room located right on the water (LA Harbor), with a mariachi band playing during dinner; a DJ will do his thang afterwards for dancing, et al. I wonder what DH is going to wear...?

My goal for today: color my hair, refresh my dress and shave my legs, and somehow make it through the evening! Wish me luck!!!

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    you will keep getting through these things, one step at a time Elizabeth... I have a husband of moods myself and my tolerance has become almost in the negative! Enjoy yourself and just hope that he does too!
    3893 days ago
    i would have to say the same thing go and have fun.

    God Bless.

    3893 days ago
    I agree...Go ...And have some fun. You need it. Turning 60 was a big one to my hubby too I think. Just carry scott with you. I know you already do, but don't focus on the pain today. Just for today. Be thinking of you. Jude
    3893 days ago
    You can make it through. Take it one step at a time. Go and enjoy yourself. It sounds as if it could be a nice evening. Try to relax and go with the flow. Post and let us know how it goes please.
    3893 days ago
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