DWEXCEL
Good Morning! Thank you for the nice comments, and for adding me as a friend. I have added you right back.
I know, personally, that the back can be a huge pain in the butt! Although I never had to have surgery, I spent over 10 years feeling like I was 80 years old, couldn't walk up the stairs in my house, couldn't put my pants on...you get the picture, I'm sure. I did go through 10 years of different rounds of PT, chiropractic, pain killers, cortisone shots, patches, you name it.....everything short of surgery.
Once I finally had my breakthrough, thanks to the efforts of one fantastic PT assistant, who told me.....No matter what, don't stop moving. When I finished that round of active therapy, I went straight to the gym, and signed up with a personal trainer. It has been a slow road,(honestly about 4 years) but it has steadily come off. I am down about 35 pounds from my highest weight, probably the strongest I've been since I was in my 20's, and for the first time, I tried yoga this summer.
At first, I didn't think I would like it. But boy, was I wrong! At the advice of a trainer, I decided to try it. What amazing results! I couldn't believe the difference it made in strength and flexibility.
So you keep it up, girl! You will get through this, and will come back stronger than ever!
WILLSBAMA
Hi! The program I am on is HCG and during the 40 days of it there are very strict lists of items that help with weight loss. So, it's just not an option to take 1 bite. There are other times in the program that are less strict, so it's not forever. It is interesting to have to tell myself NO.
I'm praying for you and your husband. There really isn't a wrong decision, it's just a choice to be made and then you move forward into it and make that choice work! There was a time in our lives that my husband worked 4 hours away, he was only home on the weekends. The kids were younger and I was a stay-home Mom caring for my Grandmother. I was very independent - so thought I missed him I was fine with him gone. It was harder for him to be away - the evenigs were lonely. I still had kids to feed, laundry to do, our friends. He had a hotel room.
Looking back, it was necessary and it was temporary. My DH couldn't have done it forever, he didn't like being away from us.
Is moving an option?
My BFF's son is leaving for the Air Force in February! I remind myself not to complain that my oldest daughter moved out and across town (about 5 miles) not to Texas. She got a little clock she's calling 'Taylor Time" and plans to set the time on it to wherever he is so she doesn't have to think to hard about it. I like that idea, maybe you will as well.