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August 2008, after losing 15 pounds.

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My name is Pauline, and I'm a compulsive overeater and restricter. I have always been at a healthy weight, but my problems are in my mind and spirit. I have been a competitive triathlete in the past and was always able to outrun my calorie intake but was always dissatisfied with my body and was overly concerned with my appearance. I come from a perfectionist background and appeared successful on the outside, but was struggling with depression, feelings of worthlessness, hopelessness and anxiety on the inside. I thought about committing suicide on many occasions.

I was recruited to take part in a workplace fitness challenge because my teammates knew I would rack up lots of exercise points for the team, and I ended up losing 15 lbs. without intending to, because I assiduously recorded every calorie that I ate or burned off here on SparkPeople. I went from a size 6 to a size 2. I fell in love with my new, ultra-skinny body, but it quickly turned dark-- I was like Golum in "Lord of the Rings", warping my entire life and mind in order to protect my "precious, precious" skinniness! My life became all about cooking healthy meals and exercising to keep the fat off. I was short-tempered with my husband, and I stopped hanging out with friends because I was afraid I would lose control around them and lose my "perfect" body. I would panic at any uptick in the scale and felt like I was walking a tightwire.

Eventually I had a dream in which I got shot in the head, and my first reaction was, "Oh, thank GOD I won't have to track calories anymore!" For that reason, I no longer track calories (UPDATE: I am tracking calories again, at least for now). I just don't want to go on living like that. For two years after that, I binged some and ate unrestrictedly until I was back at the weight where I had started, a size 6. I wasn't clinically overweight, and some people thought I looked better, but I struggled every day not to hate my bigger body. Then I read "Prevent and Reverse Heart Disease" by Caldwell Esselstyn, M.D., and I followed the eating plan for 11 days and saw my cholesterol go from 200 to 156. Most stunning, though, was how different I felt after putting down the sugar and fat. I was so CALM, and the cravings had disappeared! I was able to fit back into size 4, or squeeze into size 2, again. Everyone else in my family is overweight or obese, so I always feared gaining weight and dying of heart disease or type-2 diabetes, which my dad has.

I am having a hard time sticking to the rigorous rules of the Esselstyn plan, as well, because I still have an addict's personality and yearn for ever-increasing pleasure and exciting variety. I'm hoping that working the 12 steps in Overeaters Anonymous will help me replace this
"unquenchable thirst" for pleasure with the calmness of being close to a higher power.

Member Since: 2/7/2008

Fitness Minutes: 194,254

My Goals:
To track my nutrition and exercise. To maintain my current weight.

Body fat% 7/2/09: 22

My Program:
I'm using SparkPeople Nutrition Tracker. I'm trying to exercise 5-6 times per week, including running 2x and weightlifting 2x, and cross-training the other days (biking, rowing, XC skiing, etc.)

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I love to bike. I married my husband because of biking. I commute by bike all year long and have a folding travel bike, which I've taken all over the world. Check out our bike travel blog at

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One good tip is to try to chew each bite 50 times. I actually find it impossible to go over 36 times! You'll find that high-fiber, whole grain or fresh foods work much better for this, and processed foods fall apart and taste bland right away. It helps slow you down and savor the flavors more; plus it aids your digestion.

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  • v MIRAGE727
    Thank you for the kind words on my blog. When you come down again, give us a shout. Maybe our SparkTeam can get together with you at Serendipity for a bite!
    2431 days ago
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    Kudos to you for joining us here on the Raw Foodies Team. This will be one of the best decisions you have ever made. Sparkers come here and join this great team for a multitude of reasons. They may be curious about the health benefits of Raw Food and join to learn all about eating Raw. Many join for the weight loss. Many join the Team for a Detox. There are a great many people who do the Raw Food Diet as a Detox but then they realize how alive they feel and how the pounds melted away so effortlessly they decide to continue to eat this way. There are others who will join this Team for the health benefits of a Raw Food Diet. A diet based on raw food can reverse diabetes, arthritis (I personally have experienced this. I went off all of my arthritis meds after only a few weeks), heart disease, cancer (that is how I became involved with the Raw Food Diet when my sister was diagnosed with Lymphoma), eliminates migraines, the list goes on and on.

    So join us and learn how to make the transition from SAD (Standard American Diet) to a healthy Raw Food Diet. You will be happy you did!
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    2520 days ago
    I just read your comment on The Slowest Loser blog and after reading your introduction about yourself, it was like I had written the entire thing. I'm not quite at my goal yet, but I have lost about 25 pounds, with 5 more to go. I have been struggling with depression for the last 10 years, and it just occurred to me the other day that even having achieved what I have so far, I am no happier than before I lost the weight. And like you, I obsess about gaining it back, especially since I spend a lot of time thinking about food and what I wish I could eat, and the obsessing is making me feel more out of control and worse about myself. There are definitely days (a lot of them!) when I seriously wonder if I'm crazy to think I can maintain this for the rest of my life.
    Anyway, glad I found your Page and read your story!
    2578 days ago
    Hello! I saw that you commented on my status the other day in regards to the row machine. I love it! My husband and I used to love using them at the gym at our university years ago and have always wanted one since. We found a used one for $130 and are so glad we did. I have worked out so much more since having some cardio equipment here at home. Now I have the ability to do cardio at home or at the gym! Woohoo! Hope this boosts my SLOW progress! LOL!
    Hope you are doing well. Glad to see you are still active after all this time!
    Take care!
    Elizabeth (nayanator!)
    2654 days ago
    Welcome to Thich Nhat Hanh....and others. I look forward to reading your posts and getting to know you. Cheers, Michelle
    2739 days ago
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