THESHELBSTER
Thank you so much for taking the time to read and post on my ONEderland blog. Your kind words are very much appreciated. I hope you are having a great week. Hugs. 3457 days ago
KIAKOSTNER
Self Motivation is the hardest thing in the world! But I found something on here the other day that has helped me: Treat/talk to yourself the way you would a friend. If someone else was having a hard day, What would you say to them? You would tell them they are amazing and that they can do anything they set their mind to do, and offer to go work out with them or something along those lines... Treat yourself with the same respect. The site said to actually write these things down on piece of paper and post it somewhere where you will see it a lot. You can be your own best Motivator... It is a habit that you have to cultivate, but it can be done... the WORST thing you can do is beat yourself up over little mistakes or imperfection... SO what! Put things into perspective. And always remember: You define yourself... What you say you are is who you are... If you say you are strong, than you will be, but if you say you are struggling, and failing, guess what? you are probably right... Hope this helps. I could use a friend to help me motivate myself as well. If you are interested, add me as your friend. :) 3459 days ago