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  • v SPOKENWORD
    Hey Spark Buddy! Just stopping by to show some love to your page! Happy Marvelous Monday! Enjoy your week!
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    753 days ago
  • v DIANEDOESSMILES
    HI I saw your post on Mssdoekness page I hope you don't mind hopping on over here.

    I had the step monster from ***** as I grew up. He ALWAYS after a beating (Hmmm at 17 I wasn't to OLD FOR HIS NONSENSE??? APPARENTLY HE THOUGHT NOT ! BUT !! I went BACK at him just as hard. If I had seriously injured him,,, I would of only laughed. After each time,,, he wore steel toed boots,, ALWAYS Kicked me so HARD ,,, I have scolosis and it's quite ,, or was quite noticable,,, so he'd KICK ME HARD right there. It's now over 40 yrs and I still feel that spot daily, often. BUT he's DEAD Now (I DID Celebrate as did my Mom who somehow NEVER knew??? what was going on. He only hit her once. Just happen to be at Thankgiving time. She gave him QUITE THE SHINER. At the table Mom stood up,,, all the family,,, aunts, uncles, grammy etc were there,,, she said "Do you see Johns shiner? He HIT ME the other night (GASPS heard ALL around and HATERED STARES TO HIM) she continued "So that SHINER IS A REMINDER TO HIM IF HE EVEN TRIED AGAIN I'LL KILL HIM !!" She sat back down,,,,it was VERY QUIET for a few minutes,,, not easy with 25 plus people there. GOOO MOM !!

    I have overcome the emotional crap (I ALSO got back at him in a couple of ways. He got very sickly towards the end. LOL THE IDIOT started to read the bible (didn't change his ways) I told him "I DO NOT know why your reading the bible. It DOES talk about HELL AND YOU ARE GOING STRAIGHT DOWN THERE !" his face,,, SHOCKED,, PRICELESS. I did attend therapy so that he no longer controls me. hence I'll pass along to you what I was told "You are now SAFE. He can't hurt you in ANY way any more, but your ALLOWING him to be in your thoughts IS Hurting you.: So she had me write a letter to him,,,with ALL THE FEELINGS I had,,,, we put them into a can,, went outside and BURNED the leter,,, that was the END of his control ! For the nightmares,,, this will sound a little odd,, but it WORKS ! I went to an acupuncturist who put a STAPLE in each ear,,,its a special type of and it only hurt literally 3 seconds,,, than it was FINE. The nightmares stopped THAT NIGHT ! He had to do this 3 times, but it's been over a year and I NO LONGER have them. NEVER Thought that'd of happened ! I TRIED various meds,,, side affects blah,,, meds. If your acupuncturist is a MD Also it can be put in as a Dr visit and most insurances will pay it (Including medicare). Hope this helps
    805 days ago
  • v 50YEARSAWIFE
    Welcome to Spark People. Good luck on your journey.
    809 days ago
  • v HEALTHYWRITER
    Welcome!
    810 days ago
  • v B_DETERMINED
    Thank you #1HappySpirit emoticon
    I am starting to understand the website more now. And am feeling comfortable to use such a platform for the first time.

    810 days ago
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