In my family, both holidays are equally important and we spend time together during both.
11/27/13 9:08 P
I think Thanksgiving is important, because, after a whole year of constant nagging to "not eat this and not eat that", people finally feel it's OK to actually eat some food that tastes good for a change, and these holidays gives them a chance to do that, enjoy each others company, and cook something that is fun.
11/27/13 7:34 P
Although I love Thanksgiving , Christmas is more important to me and it's not even about presents in my book. I think people make more of an effort to come home for Christmas, it just seems there's more of a good about people then, that's when you'll see people giving more to charities especially when it comes to kids so they have a nice Christmas, I think even the people who are a little cold hearted seem to melt down a bit. Christmas just seems more family oriented like watching the Christmas specials with your kids and just seems like there's more tradition during the holiday. Whatever your religion people just seem a bit more nicer there's just a magic in the air I think, I mean I'm Catholic so there's other meanings to me, but it just seems people come together during this time.
When I think about it....Thanksgiving is just a 1 day (maybe a weekend) holiday. Christmas goes on all thru December...between get togethers with friends, holiday luncheons at work, Christmas buffets in the office, family get togethers (that you won't see on Christmas), Christmas Eve celebrations (and midnight mass), and then finally the big day. And sometimes you get together after Dec 25 for friends too busy to meet before. So is Christmas a big deal...YES
I don't think it can be generalized. Americans are a diverse group of people and have all sorts of traditions.
To clarify my previous response ...
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11/27/13 4:20 P
For us also - Thanksgiving is like the warm-up to Christmas.
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11/27/13 4:04 P
I think that in our country Thanksgiving begins the long marathon of holiday insanity: followed by the biggest shopping day of the year, seems like the whole country goes into over indulge mode from eating to shopping. I've learned, finally, never to travel at this time, airports are absolutely impossible and air fare is jacked up.
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11/27/13 12:38 P
When I was growing up, Christmas was a bigger deal with my family than Thanksgiving. And not because of the presents. Christmas was when the extended family (distant cousins, relatives from out of town) all came "home" to celebrate. Thanksgiving is what the individual families celebrated on their own. Christmas everyone got together at my aunt's house. It was a tradition we had for many many years.
These days ? I think that Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year's have been merged into one big holiday season.
I was shocked the day I heard my favorite oldies radio station start playing Christmas music on Veteran's Day !! Sorry, I'm a firm believer that Christmas doesn't start until after the turkey carcass has been turned into soup. We barely get to celebrate Thanksgiving before it's on to Christmas.
It's just one big holiday, where one merges into the other.
I think Christmas is a much bigger deal than Thanksgiving. Thanksgiving you might get together with people and have food on one day but that is pretty much it. Christmas is more like a whole month of activities, expectations and gatherings.
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My impression is that, for most people in the US, Christmas is a MUCH bigger deal. We are an incredibly acquisitive culture and Christmas is about stuff for most people, so there you go.
My family is not religious and not terribly materialistic, so Thanksgiving is more important for us.
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1,730 11/27/13 11:54 A
I favor Christmas, but both are important family days with a time to reconnect.
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