Author: Sorting Last Post on Top Message:
SUEACCT SparkPoints: (0)
Fitness Minutes: (2,031)
Posts: 1,730
11/5/13 9:55 A

Attitude is so contagious...beware!

TINA8605 SparkPoints: (99,668)
Fitness Minutes: (12,395)
Posts: 1,764
11/5/13 9:55 A

I really never realized how negative can drain you until I sat a woman with a new diagnosis of Crohns Disease. She didn't even have it that bad. When I got home from sitting with her for 4 hours, I was like an emotional sponge....I started talking just like her. I found that after 4 months of doing this I was in a downward spiral of depression. My job with her ended, but so did my depression. I learned a strong lesson from her. I don't include her or any one like her in my day to day routine. Don't intend on sounding mean but people like her are just not good for me.

LKS2GAB2 SparkPoints: (37,765)
Fitness Minutes: (24,191)
Posts: 1,230
11/5/13 9:24 A

I try to surround myself with positive people. Negativity is like a cancer that spreads at a rapid pace.

AGITATOR1 SparkPoints: (3,959)
Fitness Minutes: (0)
Posts: 499
11/15/12 9:31 A

Resisting the negative forces gets positive results

11/15/12 2:53 A


ASHLEYGILLE SparkPoints: (12,745)
Fitness Minutes: (2,227)
Posts: 1,889
11/14/12 3:51 P

Usually people are hurtful because they are jealous or feel threatened! Same with being rude... Unfortunately, there are some pretty ignorant people out there. I agree, consider the source and/or turn it into a positive. This should help!

TACDGB Posts: 6,136
11/14/12 3:45 P

You can't change what people say to you. You only can change how you handle it. I do 2 things. One is to concider the source and the other is to change a negative into a positive.

RIET69 SparkPoints: (47,087)
Fitness Minutes: (11,285)
Posts: 3,116
11/14/12 2:35 P

I work very hard on surrounding myself with positive people. One way I do it is by being a positive person myself.

GLITTERFAIRY77 Posts: 8,023
11/14/12 12:32 P

Words to live by. It isn't always easy when it comes from family. However, when it is strangers-what do they know about you, anyway? Not a thing. So let it roll off your back like water over a duck's back.

Quack quack, mother fathers. *maniacal laughter*

JESSMARIE13 SparkPoints: (0)
Fitness Minutes: (1,102)
Posts: 149
11/14/12 12:31 P

Put-downs come with being human. We can't control what happens to us, but it's important to monitor how you react to it!

BANKER-CHUCK Posts: 6,714
11/14/12 11:46 A

I think you are being hopeful. People can put others down with just a word or by action. A friend or relative may say something that shows disrespect that cuts deep.

MYUTMOST4HIM Posts: 11,453
11/14/12 11:44 A

You are right!!! And most people that make those snide comments are just jealous

IFEOMA4 SparkPoints: (10,310)
Fitness Minutes: (2,555)
Posts: 103
11/14/12 11:42 A

People will always be people. They may try to put you down and make you feel bad. It would not stick as long as you do not allow it. You are the only one who can put yourself down.

Page: 1 of (1)  

Other SparkPeople Cafe Topics:

Topics: Last Post:
Do You Have Any Fitness/Weight Loss Superstitions? 5/1/2016 10:43:53 PM
Barnes & Noble Board Game Events 3/1/2016 11:11:00 AM
Today 2/14/2017 10:11:45 PM
what makes you happy 6/21/2016 10:56:08 AM
Smartwatches? 4/24/2016 9:56:53 PM