If you have flown on an airplane, you have heard the, "Parents, secure your mask, first." You have to start fixing yourself, before you can help others. We try to help and fix the lives of family, friends, and strangers. We are no good to others, if we too, are broken.
We must find our center, focus, and mission. Then we can help others to do the same. You never know how hard it is to change and persevere if you have never done it yourself. Everyone has something they can work on!