Toxic "Friends" - Let Them Go, Give Yourself Permission--It Is Okay, I Promise!
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Letting go of toxic "friends" is just as important as surrounding yourself with positive people. All it takes is that one person that will delight in the back handed compliment or saying cutting or disparaging things. It is OKAY to distance yourself, in fact, you NEED to keep the negativity away.
Friends are supportive and kind and want the best for you. Your happiness makes them happy. Hugs to all of you that have someone toxic in your life. I'm slowly detaching myself from them and wish for all of you the strength and ability to do the same.
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... in other people's sorrows! We all have loved ones and friends with problems, but there is a fine line between helping someone and sharing in their change or temporary venting...and drowning in their sorrows. If you are left deflated and defeated, it's ok to cut the toxic ties!
Some people need much more than we can ever give, and they can ever receive to fill that deep dark hole. Some people have very toxic behaviours. Give yourself permission to shed the toxic relationships, so that you can heal. Surround yourself with positive people. Good for your health and sanity!
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