My daughter said, "I cheated and had a slice of cheese." We need to make choices positive, otherwise it insinuates quilt and negativity. "I had a slice of cheese and it was delicious!" With practice embracing the positive can become a habit and then a lifestyle ;^)
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I SO agree with you on this - Have been doing for a few months now and cravings don't hit me like they used to. If I make the choice to have something I want, even if unhealthy, I treasure and enjoy it fully, a reasonable amount... then I get on with my day and all my other choices!
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For years as a child my parents told me think of the children who are starving. So cleaning the plate by eating all the food was ingrained into my brain. Now I am retraining my brain by taking the food to the trash if my body says enough, No more pushing myself to eat it all ;^)
To finally be able to lose weight, I had to retrain my brain to stop making stupid excuses. I had to teach my brain how to think thoughts that told me I can do this.
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ideas: No one returns home from a walk and says, "I wish I wouldn't have gone on that walk today."
They aren't staring at me, they are wishing they are out here excercising also