One day, I got so frustrated about the clutter in the house(there isnt too much but it was getting out of hand!) That I remembered what My Mom said when company was coming over. We went thought the house cleaning everything.
Well ,I decided that day, I was "company" , I started cleaning ,de cluttering ,polishing and dusting. In about 1 1/2 hrs, my house looked I was ready to entertain. So I relaxed and enjoyed it .
Moral - u deserve the best,sometimes U have to work for it.