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My Ah-Ha! Moment - A Victim No More!


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It bothers me when people act as if they are victim of circumstance and blame their problems on others.

Today it dawned on me ... I do the SAME thing when blame not taking care of myself on lack of time or money or whatever. What a hypocrite!

*I* am in control of my own destiny!

- Submitted by NICKNOO 3/30/2010 in Motivation | 5 Comments
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102633 4/8/2010 7:18:00 AM

    It is always easier to see our worse habits in someone else. You are right though, once I quit playing the blame game and take responsibility for myself, things will begin to move in a positive direction.
JOYINKY 4/5/2010 8:46:00 AM

MOMM4LIFE 4/4/2010 5:54:00 AM

KEEPONMOVIN2 4/4/2010 2:45:00 AM

MTNGIRL07 3/30/2010 2:06:00 PM

    That is sooo true...I like the way you think...I needed to hear that...thank you!!!! emoticon

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