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Communication.. An Open Mind Agrees To Disagree


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At times I have had an open mind but felt threatened when someone else thought differently. Good relationships require the non-threatening exchange of ideas and feelings. When I listen to someone’s opinions and feelings, without being defensive, I learn and grow. It opens my mind to understanding more, with the world and within myself. I’m at the stage when I truly value PEACE and HARMONY …even if I have to kill to get it. emoticon

Some people thrive on debates or competition, and WINNING the ‘argument’, but in reality they LOSE, and don’t even know it. When I discuss things with the aim of HEARING the other person, and acknowledging their side, it usually expands our understanding and mutual respect, a WIN/WIN victory
- Submitted by SHERYLDS 12/15/2010 in Staying Positive | 2 Comments
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MOTTAMAMALOU 12/16/2010 5:03:00 PM

    i totally agree.
JASI27 12/15/2010 8:08:00 AM

    My best friend and I have this kind of relationship! We always have to agree to disagree because we don't see anything in the same light! lol It always makes for interesting conversation!

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