A little secret I've learned to maintain soft kissable lips. Both Men & Women
Apply chapstick or a little vaseline to your lips and about 1/2 tsp of sugar in the palm of your hands and apply to lips (with the chapstick or vaseline & sugar gently scrub lip using fingers for about 2 mins and wash off. Soft lips. No need for olive oil and honey and all the sticky mess just simple. I do this 2x a week.
Ladies an idea - Guys rather a natural lip (no sticky gloss or heavy lipstick) Hope this helps