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Rid Your Self Of Negativite People


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Ying and Yang , good and bad, yes and no, negative and positive. To feel positive about yourself you have the power and ability to rid your self of negativity, bad situations, and saying yes to yourself instead of others. Take BACK your control and make a choice on who you want to have relations with it a friend, co-worker or spouse. If they are holding you down remember you can't change them only yourself. Take baby steps to get back on track with YOU! emoticon

I've been bullied so many times in my life I can't tell ya. I know what it is to dust myself off and rise above so many occasions. You can too!!!
- Submitted by ONLYHAVE1LIFE 9/1/2010 in Staying Healthy | 2 Comments
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LAMBIERABBIT 1/2/2011 9:07:00 PM

    Absolutely, positively yes! This is sooooo true, whether it be a sibling a parent, a co-worker or a 'faux' friend, if that person is negative, angry or toxic--leave him or her alone and have nothing to do with the person if you can help it! emoticon
The illusion that we have to be friends with this person because of the 'inherent' connection is the manifestation of devilish functions of life creating a test for you. Pass the test by walking past this temptation. It is not necessary or even healthy to be liked by everyone. emoticon
SPARKLES 9/1/2010 2:20:00 PM

    Oh boy - that hit the nail on the head for ME today. In the process of ridding myself of one such person today.

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