I WATCHED A NEWS ITEM ON CAREGIVERS. THEY OFTEN BURN OUT EVEN BEFORE THE PERSON THEY CARE FOR DOES. YOU NEED TO TAKE TIME FOR YOURSELF OR YOU WILL BE OF NO GOOD TO ANYONE
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My sister is a caretaker of my dad who is 84 she is having a really hard time. I pray there are more groups to reach out to these, She was on spark for a while and then left.
CRAZYGAGRANNY8/27/2010 11:27:00 PM
This is very good advice but very hard to follow unless you have dependable help. I know while I was caring for my Mother,it was 24/7 and very hard to get a break. No I a helping care for my MIL and it is not as challenging, but still it takes a toll. This is great advice...but a solution,would sound better...LOL!
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