I am the queen of 'failed diets' and since I joined SP I have found that getting rid of the all or nothing/black and white thinking has been one of my biggest helps. Its all about lifestyle not all or nothing!
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Just because I miss a workout or have a bad day or meal doesn't mean I have to throw in the towel for the rest of the week!
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That too is my philosophy, this is a life change, not a diet. Not a quick fix, but a journey to permanent, better health! dennyb
JENNISTAR374/19/2011 12:41:00 PM
forget one day of mess-ups...If I even mess up for an evening, I have problems getting back on track! I'm trying to change this type of thinking!
JERRY24/5/2010 8:27:00 AM
Although the Spark teams are very helpful; it boils down to decisions you make.
YOU and the person you see in the mirrors make the important decisions that impact your health.
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