Hurt feelings or discomfort of any kind cannot be caused by another person. No one outside me can hurt me. Thatís not a possibility. Itís only when I believe a stressful thought that I get hurt. And Iím the one whoís hurting me by believing what I think. This is very good news, because it means that I donít have to get someone else to stop hurting me. Iím the one who can stop hurting me. Itís within my power. - Byron Katie
Use a sharpie permanent pen (you can erase with alcohol) to write your goals on your bathroom or personal bedroom mirror. It's even better if you draw a representational picture of them. Start your wording with I am or I purchase etc. Everyday as you look in the mirror it in scripts on your mind. I purchased a new car, got a new job, and moved to a new place this way. I had written on my grandmother's mirror. Years later my mom returned the mirror and all the goals were still there. It works!