Stay focused on your own life and goals. Be aware of others and supportive but don't get caught up in their drama. Save your energy for positive forward motion, not for spinning your wheels in the mud of life, yours or anther's!
I remember this great quote: by Kelly Gallagher
"Nobody rises to low expectations"
Set your own standard and then run with it! Expect the best from yourself, be reasonable, yet make it so you have to stretch and grow.
Answer these three questions on days you don't feel like following a plan.
1. What do you want?
2. What are you doing?
3. Is what you are doing going to get you what you want?
If you answer these questions honestly with you gaol in mind... you'll get moving...