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When you feel stressed and it's making you think of food, do some deep breathing. Fill up your lungs with air the same manner in which a vase would be filled with water. Visualize the air filling up from the bottom, and when you exhale, empty starting at the top. This essentially forces you to be mindful. Good meditation.
If you were talking with a good friend who got off track, you would be kind and compassionate. You would encourage your friend to keep trying and that success will come. Try that compassion with yourself. If you stick with it, you will make!
Getting back on track has been easier than I thought it would be. Instead of trying to take my weight loss goal and the time from here to there as a big chunk and a long way off, I'm tracking my food one day at a time, one meal at a time. Thank you Spark People!
A toad trip or visit to relatives for a few days can really shake up my routine. I want to be congenial so I eat what is served. The hard thing is to get back to my routine when I come home. First, it is important to eat a healthy breakfast and make sure to have healthy snacks in between meals. Don't allow yourself to get hungry and be tempted to reach for a munchies. I like to have some vegetable soup or a V8. An apple sliced with almond or peanut butter helps.
When you have eaten more than your recommended calories or skipped a workout or ate that full bag of chips, don't beat yourself up! Still be sure to track whatever you ate, but move on. Everyone slips. Everyone! Keep your overall goals in mind (go over them after the slip-up) and look forward to the next day. No matter how many times you "fall", you can always get back up and still be successful.
When you put off diet change, exercise, etc till tomorrow you will find that tomorrow never comes. You forget, find an excuse, or just loose motivation. Start today; even if it's drinking an extra glass of water of going for a short walk after a meal; you'll thank yourself tomorrow.
If I get off track, I do not berate myself. As soon as I can, I get back on track. Broken ankle - gained weight, choice is to give up - NO! Start again. Losing family members to cancer...do not give in....keep going....give myself as much grace as I would give a friend ..start again. I am not a quitter