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A Solution-Focused Approach to Weight Loss

Ask the Right Questions, Find the Right Answers

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You’ll know you’re on the right track when:
  • You focus on things that go well more often than things that don't.
  • You focus on concrete ways that things can be different and how to make those changes right now. (You’re not thinking about how bleak things may look.)
  • You believe there are good reasons why you do things that cause problems, and that you can find alternative solutions that don’t have the undesirable side effects. Having problems doesn't mean something is wrong with you—just that you’ve outgrown a particular solution and are ready to find a new one.
  • You take action so that your odds of beating your problem today are pretty good.
Asking yourself these questions may feel a little strange, awkward, or even uncomfortable at first. You may experience anxiety, or come up with a big blank when you start to think about how things will be different for you. That’s normal, and OK—it takes time to change from being problem-focused to being solution-focused. Just keep trying. You will find the solutions you’re looking for.
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Dean Anderson Dean Anderson
Dean Anderson has master's degrees in human services (behavioral psychology/stress management) and liberal studies. His interest in healthy living began at the age of 50 when he confronted his own morbid obesity and health issues. He joined SparkPeople and lost 150 pounds and regained his health. Dean has earned a personal training certification from ACE and received training as a lifestyle and weight management consultant. See all of Dean's articles.

Member Comments

  • I love this. I read another's comment about how the points in this article are EXACTLY why this is working this time. I agree. I have been working on this, applying myself fully to this growth experience, shedding blame and doubt along the way, and really embracing my ability to succeed. By no means is it always easy...but I am staying grounded in what is real and what I have the ability to affect. I have learned so much about who I really am and what I am really capable of through this process. As my goal board says...I am living my BEST life, now (not waiting to reach my goal before I believe that). - 7/29/2014 4:11:09 PM
  • COOKEDBOOK
    This is the vaguest article I have ever read on here. :-/ - 6/14/2014 9:58:37 AM
  • One of the best articles I have ever read on SP! Thank you so much--I'm bookmarking this and will definitely come back to it. What a way to take a look at perspective. - 11/30/2013 5:22:04 PM
  • AMAYABLUE
    Great article, thank you! - 10/17/2013 11:43:36 AM
  • ELLY2017
    Excellent article. So useful to get one's thinking out of the same old groove. Thank you Spark People! - 8/13/2013 10:03:01 PM
  • I have made my mind up that I am going all the way this time. I really want to be healthy. - 4/29/2013 8:46:58 AM
  • MICHELEB04
    This article is EXACTLY why I've been successful this time. I didn't know why it was working but now I do. At the start of this year, I set 3 very small, very specific actions I was going to take to meet my weight loss. I haven't really set a number-related goal, I've tried but backed away each time. Instead, I kept focusing on my actions (i.e. solutions) and today the scale proved that this is the way to get it done! - 3/24/2013 9:14:59 PM
  • I have read and re-read this article many times. I have also shared it with many who are struggling on their journey, on whatever "program" they are using. As long as you have goals set to use as a guideline, you will be successful; however, there are going to be times when you "fall off" or make a mistake. But you can't beat yourself up over it. Just realize what you did, use it as a lesson learned and move on! This article helps one to understand that! AWESOME article that I will surely go back to again and again! - 3/24/2013 4:17:38 PM
  • So I can just positive thinking to think myself thinner? For me I have to tell myself I've come this far I'm not messing it up now. I said I'm going to lose weight and thats what I'm going to do because I will not be a failure at this. I did the same thing when I quit smoking. I had a failure cig that I refused to smoke. - 3/24/2013 1:48:44 PM
  • I loved this article! It seems to be just what I need now! I've been gaining weight because of a sweet tooth that just won't quit. To be able to find alternate ways of distraction really, to help me to not go to them, is such a tremendous reminder. Thank you so much!! - 3/24/2013 1:23:43 PM
  • I couldn't make sense of any of this. Ask the right questions, find the right answers? We are experts at deceiving ourselves, so we'll stick with any answer that fits, not necessarily an answer that will lead us to the solution. My cousin's weight problems were all related to his thyroid, so he was helpless. . .yeah, right. We do what we do for myriad reasons, we don't do what we don't want to do for even more. We need to stop looking for excuses, and start taking action. - 3/24/2013 1:21:07 PM
  • A very helpful article that I'm going to refer back to again and again. The point about finding a different payoff, other than eating sweets etc., to give you the same comfort or feeling, really resonated with me. I think I'll figure out 2 or 3 things now, when I'm not under stress, that I can refer back to. - 3/24/2013 12:45:32 PM
  • A very helpful article that is a good reminder for all of us. Being mindful of our behavior and setting up structures that will help us to stay on track and not fall into the same patterns is crucial. I still struggle with binges from time to time...I need to set things up to change that and not just hope it won't happen again. Thanks for your info! - 3/24/2013 11:16:21 AM
  • This is a fabulous article! Thanks for adding it to so many other good ideas, - 3/24/2013 10:47:20 AM
  • Great article. - 3/24/2013 10:10:18 AM

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