My weight loss buddy has been awesome - even though we don't live in the same place and have never worked out together. We encourage each other, share our goals and hold each other accountable. Right now we have an ongoing wager to pay the other $20 if we miss work out days. Doesn't seem like much, but it keeps us working out.
7/19/2010 11:32:30 AM
I'm open to the idea of a buddy but I don't think I could be healthy about it. I'm very competitive. I think I would feel crushed if he/she succeeded when I didn't, and self-righteous and proud if I succeeded when he/she didn't. That's not helpful at all.
12/9/2009 2:52:46 PM
I agree completely. Check out my blog "What a difference a team makes" on my SparkPage where I tell you the progress I've made with my challenge team mates. We encourage each other, lift each other up when we fall, remind each other of the goals and that we are worth it.
I agree with this article. My best friend has been my buddy through the last couple of months. She keeps me motivated and I am now at the point that if she has to miss a day exercise I am still motivated enough to continue without her.
10/3/2009 1:46:35 PM
looking for a buddy to share weight loss and healthy lifestyle
am 62 year old grandmother and have 35 pounds to loose
I am looking for a buddy - I am in my late 40's and have 20 pounds to lose...
7/14/2009 10:35:06 AM
Looking for a buddy who is in their 40's and has 40-50 pounds to lose. I'm located in Texas and eager to get this ball rolling. You be accountable to me, I be accountable to you. Our goals must be compatible and the focus straight forward.
Are you in? Summer is here and Fall is approaching. Looking forward to a nice New Year's Eve.
The hard part is finding someone with similar goals and managing schedules. I used to work out at the Y near where I used to live with another woman I ice skate with. But then I moved about 45 minutes away and it's just not possible. We still push each other on the ice, but it is the off the ice exercises I wish I had someone to work with. I also do not have any gyms near me as I live out in a rural area. I have everything in my house. I wish my husband would get into working out with me. But he is one of those people who never workout, can eat anything he wants and weighs probably 125 soaking wet and is not into exercising at all.
I have made relationships with some people on here but as I never see them I was very relieved when about 6 or 7 weeks in by boyfriend decided to change his lifestyle too and jump on board. I really feel I would have quit by now if he hadn't joined me at that exact moment! He has lost 35 lbs and I have lost almost 31 lbs! What a difference a buddy makes!
I found a running buddy here on Spark after she made a comment about a running article I had saved on my Spark page. She wanted to become a runner just like me...we start week two tomorrow. We don't live anywhere near each other, but we are doing our encouragement through Spark email.
When I look for a Sparkfriend, I look for someone who has two or three things in common with me...same amount to lose, college bound children, same age, etc... That has been working well for me. Oh, and join (and be active!) in a Spark Team.
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