My main motivation is to SURVIVE! I have had cancer two times in two years and now I have it again. Exercising and eating right through chemo will make me feel better physically and mentally and emotionally and SPRITUALLY!
Congratulations, and thanks for the article! I'm in the same boat. As a woman who is planning on starting a family soon, it's on me to get in shape BEFORE the baby is even conceived. That's why I'm working to lose weight and get healthy. My future children need a strong, healthy body to protect them for 9 months, so that's what I'm giving them (and giving myself also - I've read too many scary things about the risks of pregnancy while obese and/or with high blood pressure). I realize this article is several years old now, so I'm sure you're a great dad to a wonderful kid. :) Thanks for the reminder to think about why I'm working so hard.
10/6/2011 8:09:18 PM
And to the member who has no one to love, God loves you. He made you just the way you are for a reason.
10/6/2011 8:06:50 PM
Great article Mike and well written ! I share your sentiments. When I huff and puff or deny myself that tasty dessert around the corner to stay healthy, my focus is to be there when my now teenagers will themselves become parents and I want to be the kind of grandparent that will run around with my grand children and laugh with them and have fun without limping or on a wheel chair. If every thing fails, I can say my chest and say I really tried! The thought of declaring that I ran a good run always keeps me going even when I platue for months.... Let us know how your baby is doing.
My ex-family believes that I'm possessed by a demon and any success I have in life comes from the devil. I'm sure if I told them I'm going to be a homeowner in just two weeks, they would say that the devil caused the housing market to collapse so that abominations like me could steal from god's kingdom. I'm not one gender or the other, so neither gender is interested in me, and since I'm legally male, even when love seems possible, I know I'll always need to hide it away. I'm just not allowed to talk about my feelings the way anyone else can go on about their wives or husbands. My two friends are an on-again off-again roommate and a guy I talk to on the internet. One time a guy was interested in using me for my money to help him raise his kids, but he didn't understand that if protective services learned that an abomination like me was involved with his children, they'd take them away. His religious ex-wife would have had a field day with the way I am.
I'm not part of god's kingdom, I don't have any loved ones, and that's just the way things are for me.
What a great article. It sure put things in perspective and was written so well. Two impressions I got from this article: 1. it's going to make a lot of people reflect about what's important and what's not and what their motivation is ; 2. Mike's 's going to be a GREAT dad. His sense of humor and common sense is going to carry him a long ways. Congratulations Mike and thanks!
Mike, great article! My oldest son is 32 and has a 2 year-old and a 4 month old. My entire family motivates me to be healthy. I do enjoy babysitting my grandchildren and strive to be healthy to be at my best to keep up with them! Thanks for this wonderful reminder! Best wishes to you!
I'm doing this for me. I am tired of being tired. I want to feel good, be proud of how I look and have the energy to do the things I want to do. I'm coming up on 85 pounds lost and I'm so much happier!
10/3/2010 2:15:19 PM
I want to lose weight for myself, so I can do all those physical activities I used to enjoy doing and so I don't develop any health problems down the road. But my secondary motivation has been because I want to have a child. I want to have a healthy body so I can have a healthy child. The body I have now, the food I had until about a month ago been putting into it, and my current level of physical activity are not conducive to a healthy pregnancy.
I was a bit down on myself this morning so this article is just what I needed; the reminder that losing weight and getting my body into shape is not just for the me of now but the me I wish to become.
Thanks for the article and I hope fatherhood is working out for you :)
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