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7 Things that Separate Weight-Loss Winners & Losers

How to Stay on Top of Your Game

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  • KJAZZ185
    I think it is important to build in breaks. That's the best part of this article. So many people who struggle with weight deal with the "all or nothing" mentality. If you don't give yourself "permission" to let go once in a while, it can turn into a downward spiral. If you maintain some of your program for the day - say keep your workout schedule, but then go out with the family and eat what you want that night, it help to keep you grounded (vs. just leaving it all behind for a day or two).
    Thanks for this article. - 8/19/2015 9:06:51 PM
  • I think that the focus on the team part in the comments is misunderstanding it a bit.

    I've lost a considerable amount of weight, and have started getting muscle definition for the first time. I have friends, family, and co-workers who are now talking to me about what I've done and how I've done it. We compare notes and discuss what's been hard and how to overcome those difficulties. And I feel more motivated to keep going on the right path so that I don't let them down. I think this is more what is meant. - 8/12/2015 12:14:31 PM
  • Sorry, but weight loss is not a sport. There is no room for competition in weight loss - some people lose quicker than others. The goal is not to be the fast loser, but the person who hangs in there and loses for the long term, learns how to eat and exercise for better health. The person who is losing 1/2 pound every 2 weeks can become frustrated and give up if they are constantly compared to someone who is losing faster. That is not healthy.

    Reality is not "The Biggest Loser." No one should be shamed if they let their "team" down.

    Whatever happened to personal accountability? I can be just as successful, even more so, when I focus on my needs, rather than my contribution to the team's success. - 8/11/2015 3:48:57 PM
  • Like others, I'm not big on the "team" one. I am perfectly happy to keep my fitness and weight private, thank you! The last thing I want is anyone comparing and judging me!

    However, I wholeheartedly agree with taking timeouts/breaks. So many articles and advice on this website stresses how to keep going even when you're not in the mood, but the truth, for me, is that when I try to struggle through it, I end up quitting for long periods of time. However, if I take a day to just relax & eat how I wanna eat, I am usually back on track by the next day. - 8/11/2015 11:29:21 AM
  • COUNTRYLADY60
    I do fine all day but when at work and when I first get home. I have fibromyalgia, restless legs and muscle spasms, so I am up alot at night in pain and I graze all night long. I t has cost me gaining over 70 lbs and I am trying to get back on track. I just don't know what to do I have to get control. I had lost 154 lbs and slowly am gaining it all back. I have depression anyway and this does not help. - 1/23/2015 8:46:39 AM
  • A few comments disagree with the need for a "team" Maybe I don't need a competitive team, but having a supportive, encouraging team sure helps. I was able to take off the weight while being a "spark hermit" using the resources and never interacting with anyone. But I don't think I could have maintained for nearly 5 years without this community. There are so many yo-yo stories out there, each very individual. I want to learn from them and stay exactly where I am. - 9/27/2014 3:08:05 PM
  • Nothing is a fit all,for me I find myself slipping if I do not meet with my
    TOPS group and weigh in. Accountability is important for the long haul on my journey.
    Self discipline is one of my always projects. - 9/26/2014 11:52:56 AM
  • Seems like a restating of what is often stated. I disagree with the comment that you need a team to loose weight. Huh? I didn't need a team to gain weight. I understand that it is great to connect and have support but a team is not mandatory. - 9/26/2014 9:18:53 AM
  • Recording keeps you focused not only on where you've been, but also where you're going! - 8/1/2014 8:18:36 AM
  • SHERRYHENSON
    Thank you so much - 7/31/2014 8:01:10 AM
  • Thank you so much for these very helpful tips. I think the hardest thing for me is sticking with it for the long haul. I know I CAN and WILL lose all the excess weight, but I just get so depressed thinking about how far I have to go. I think when I truly accept the fact that it will take time, and that I am enjoying all the things I'm learning and overcoming along the way, I will be much more successful in my journey and happier with myself. - 6/5/2014 3:11:28 PM
  • Thanks for sharing. - 11/21/2013 6:11:47 AM
  • I agree with most of this article, except for the "team" aspect. I have no competitive spirit, I don't like comparing myself (successes or failures) with other people. I prefer to exercise alone rather than with friends. Yet, I am consistent in my eating choices, I swim 6 days a week, and also do other exercises. I consider myself a success.

    Successful weight loss does NOT have to be a team activity. If you're a private person, or just don't like to share, you are NOT a failure if you don't buy into the team aspect of weight loss. Some of us just like to march to a different drummer. - 11/16/2013 11:27:59 AM
  • This is such a good article. I actually "knew" all this, but sometimes it helps to have it put out there in front of you. Unlike the gal before me who doesn't see any point to it all, I totally disagree. Somehow she must not be making any real friends here to think of them as "strangers who don't care" about her success. I have made several dear friends here and the support and prayers here give me something I can't get anywhere else. Yes, those around you who aren't fighting the battle DO get tired of hearing about it. But here we all know the difficulties and are a "shoulder" to go to, but also someone to cheer us on. Just complaining about what you can't eat won't help, you have to take on a positive attitude which somehow I'm missing in her statements. She's defeated and not seeing a way out. I wish I could reach out to her to try and help but this is something she must do on her own. She must find the strength and the acceptance to come here for some of what she needs but also the battle can only be fought on our own. BUT we are NOT alone. SP is here for us in so many ways. I love SP. - 11/16/2013 9:36:02 AM
  • I don't understand why I have to discuss my diet with the people around me in order to be successful. Others don't give a bleep about how often I go to the gym, or whether I've dropped a pound this week -- any more than they want to be "psyched up" to eat or act differently if they haven't actively decided to do so. Sharing with others on SparkPeople is fine -- though again I can't imagine why someone I've never met saying "great job" would spur me on (or someone saying "you can do better" would make me try harder). I find dieting and exercise to be pretty lonely work... and weightloss to be something that is only meaningful to me and not to anyone around me. Even my husband gets very sick of hearing about what I can't eat, or about the half pound I finally shed. - 11/16/2013 7:44:57 AM

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