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Is Weight Loss Hurting Your Relationship?

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  • Ugh, I'm so glad I've never experienced this with a fellow. What an insecure fellow that would be!
  • CACUJIN
    If someone deliberately schedules a workout during a time previously used to spend time with their SO, I think the relationship is not so good in the start.

    I also believe that when one diets, they should not expect everyone around them to eat diet food with them. If someone is eating chips and a dieter cannot eat chips, the dieter should find an alternative snack and leave the chip-eater alone.

    As much as some folks like to believe that everything is all about them, it is not. Dieting is something one does for themselves, not something done to someone else.
  • I am lucky that my man has been nothing but supportive and happy with me losing the weight. We have both changed for the better because of it.
  • Thank you for this!!!!
  • Good info but a little general
  • This article is dangerously oversimplified if taken without a grain of salt. The idea that anyone who psychologically sabotages others is only doing it from secret sweet vulnerable reasons is not one to be applied to all situations. The whys of these kind of conflicts are complex to decipher even with a psychological professional present, but the idea of taking this articles' "whys" and just pasted them on to any relationship is not sound. This is the kind of writing you find in fluff women's magazines and one of the reasons I truly appreciate the SPARKPEOPLE site is because it usually goes deeper than that, and pushes for a more intelligent view. If someone is truly attempting to sabotage your efforts at what might be a life saving attempt to get healthier, please - don't "compromise" or explain it away with Hallmark emotional ideas. Deal with it honestly and directly.
  • "I/he/she prefer(s) women to look like women - with curves."

    Wow.

    Why belittle women who are thinner for health reasons or are naturally skinny? Guess what, women have different body types and shapes. That doesn't mean they ALL have to look one way.
  • Nice, open-minded and empathetic suggestions in this article! Great!

    But, a reminder that disordered eating and alcohol use (both of which can be big factors in weight gain) show up frequently in people who are in abusive relationships.
    This 'sabotage' by a partner can also be a form of trying to retain or regain control over their victim.
    Don't be afraid to seek help and outside perspective. There are standard screening questions which can tell a person whether they're potentially in an abusive, controlling relationship.
  • I wish that Spark People would be more mindful that we're not all straight and use more inclusive language in their articles.

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