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| He has an appointment to get an evauation done to see if they think he needs help. He does want help, but what gets himthe most is when he is around other people that drink and dont relize that he is an alcoholic and keep offering him beer after beer. I just hope that he goes through with getting help.
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RRTXCASPER
3/28/07 2:33 P
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| I agree he will only change if he wants to. YOu can't make him and eventually you will realize that (this is if he doesn't get help) his alcohol problem affects your children. i come from an alcoholic home and it is no fun, especially when the other parent refuses to leave. My advice..get out if he wont seek help.
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KRIS10LEE
3/28/07 11:29 A
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He is only going to change if HE wants to. I would ask him why he feels the need to drink all the time.
Remind him not to drink before his turn to wake up at night with your dd, if he really is a good father tht should be enough.
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We are not actually married, call it common law marriage. We do all the things married people do, just dont have it on paper. well, anyways, he likes to drink more then he should. Dont get me wrong I dont have a problem with him drinking, just not all the time. Its a problem when it interferes with taking care of our kids. We have a 2 year old son and a 7 weeks old daughter. She wakes up to eat at night. I am in school so we try to switch off. But when he drinks too much he is dead to the world. Any advice on how to get him to understand that there is a time to drink and how to limit himself. I love him and he is a great father and husband untill he drinks too much. I really want him to get his drinking under control so we can be a happy family. Give me any advice you have, please!!!!!
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