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Future In-Laws - Like them/Hate them


 
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MOTIV8TEME
2/2/07 4:54 P
 
 
LOVE my future in-laws. They are the most kind and supportive people I've known.
I couldn't have asked for a better mother in law:)
SHONJOHN
2/2/07 9:16 A
 
 
FIL passed away. MIL I love. She is such a giving and supportive person.
SASHA7487
1/31/07 5:39 P
 
 
My future in-laws are great. thay have helped us sooooooo much. I don't know what we would do without them.
STYLISTGAL
1/31/07 9:00 A
 
 
Generally I like them. Probably hisPops a little more than his mom. She seems to get frazzled easily, so thats hard on me when I'm asking her for stuff for the wedding (ie...the correct spellings and proper names of everyone on her list...she didnt understand what I meant and still wrote "Jay" for "jasons" and "Bob" for "Roberts" LOL...owell!)

I love his Twin sister and her husband, and his little brother is fun too!

Vena
TYPHENI20
1/30/07 7:19 P
 
 
I dont have a very strong opinion one way or the other. They live very far away from us, so they dont affect my daily life! I guess that makes me lucky!
IRUN4FUN
1/30/07 10:44 A
 
 
My future in-laws are great people. I am really excited about my sister-in-law to be, we have become really good friends over the past few years and since I have only brothers it's really great having a pseudo sister.
DREAROX12
1/30/07 8:55 A
 
 
I love my future in laws! They have been nothing but sweet and generous and they get along great with my rents! I couldn't of asked for more!
PIXIECHICK82
1/30/07 2:05 A
 
 
I love my future in laws. well except for my fiance's sister in law she's just soooo frustrating and infuryating! (sorry I cant spell!) But I love the rest of them!
MOM2SIX
1/30/07 1:34 A
 
 
I LOVE my future in-laws!! They are wonderful, everyone of them. His mom and I especially get along great. They are so excited about the wedding and are always asking what they can do to help but they never just take over. They want us to have the wedding WE want. They are fabulous!
SAILBABE2000
1/17/07 3:18 P
 
 
I only have a mother in law also, and she is awesome, I couldnt ask for a better mother in law. we have gotten along since the beginning. She asks me over for dinner all the time, and we can talk about almost everything. shes great!!
JESSICAMH321
1/17/07 12:44 P
 
 
i would rather be with the in-laws-to-be than my own family, but it is hard to make conversation with them. our personalities are totally different-humour especially! i joke about almost everything, and they take me so seriously-when im clearly not being serious! his dad is really moody so i never know if he is in a good mood or bad mood. and his mom i think tolerates me. i dont think she likes me, but my fiance says they do. its weird. i get frustrated because she is always making comments about how i dont need to have a fancy wedding-saying oh well you dont need to do that, like for example give bridesmaid and grooms men gifts and also weddiong favors to guests. but if it was his sister getting married it would be hands down whatever she wanted! anyhow, i am done venting about my problems. anyone else have these issues or know how to overcome them?
MONKEY2261
12/28/06 3:30 P
 
 
I only have a mother in law to worry about. At the begining we didnt get along well at all - she wouldn't even speak to me when I walked in the house and I felt like to her I was just an inconvince. But now that we are engaged it has gotten a lot better - even on one of my Christmas presents she put "Welcome to the Family!" Dont mean much to most people, but to me it did! So we are getting along better now.
CHRISTINECOLO
12/27/06 9:40 P
 
 
I got married on Sunday so they are now my present in laws...but I love them. They are kind and gentle and loving and have been totally accepting of me since the beginning.
LIFEPILINGUP
12/27/06 12:13 P
 
 
I try to like them, but they make it hard.
They make a point to make sure that I know that I am not really a part of the family - excluding me from family pictures, including wedding pictures when their daughter got married and making me use the 'guest' entrance at their grandparents funeral and making me ride in my own car while my fiance rode in the family car. The oldest sister grimaces and leaves the room whenever I am around, she has never said a word to me - I first met them 3 years ago.

I try to be nice, but I hate going to their house and I hate being around them for the most part, so I have pretty much stopped making an effor.

Ah well.
SHAUNDALA
12/27/06 7:56 A
 
 
Parents in law are very nice, but his mother is over the top when she begins talking. She never shuts up to let anyone else into the conversation. His sister is pretty cool, really like her and her husband.
GSCHIC
12/26/06 11:24 P
 
 
like them sometimes annoyed by them...but like them just the same
CRICKETRO
12/23/06 8:00 A
 
 
my in-laws (recently got married so they are not "future" anymore) are great. i love both of them and they love me as well. my DH loves my parents also and the feeling is mutual. :)
LADYMACBEST
12/22/06 12:22 P
 
 
I have two sets of in-laws and they are both dramtaically different. I definitely got lucky in this area because they all get along and we all get along. His family loves me and I love them dearly.

Merry Christmas to all
CARROLLKR
12/22/06 12:17 P
 
 
I love them. They are caring and excepting. We always feel welcome. It is a far cry from my exhusband's family. It is a very nice refreshing change for me. I can't wait for them to officially become my in laws in October 2007.
MEGANI
12/22/06 12:09 P
 
 
I love my future in laws. They are so much more sane than my family
GREYFUZZY
12/22/06 11:30 A
 
 
I got really lucky - everybody gets along famously (me, him, my parents, his parents). I really like his family for the most part.
Now, his sister is another story... but he doesn't get along with her at all either, so it's okay.
KJANES25
12/22/06 12:35 A
 
 
PALOTZ53
3/8/06 12:16 P
 
 
I PLEAD THE FIFTH
BRANDYCRUCE
3/8/06 12:14 P
 
 
L REALLY LOVE THEM THEY ARE THE family I NEVER HAD. SOMETIMES THEY ARE A BIT HARD TO SWALLOW. DAD IS A BIT HARSH AT TIMES BUT HE DEEP DOWN IS ONE OF THE BEST MEN I EVER MET. I KNOW WERE MY FIANCE' GETS IT FROM.
A007BONDGIRL
3/8/06 5:26 A
 
 
I love my family to be, but we do have our differences in personalities, so we are learning how to talk to each other. As my mother in law says "if there is an understanding there won't be a misunderstanding." Only 2 months until the wedding and I'm keeping my chin up!
KRYSTYL_ROSE
3/8/06 1:52 A
 
 
Absolutely love my future in-laws. Still a bit intimidated by future father-in-law though. Hes a volunteer fire fighter, a part-time police officer, and a farmer. He has some pretty high ideals and I always feel like I will never be up to his standards. However even as intimidating as he can be hes a very sweet man and hard NOT to like. :)
NICOLE92306
3/8/06 12:31 A
 
 
I love my in-laws!
MOTIVATEPAM
3/5/06 9:22 P
 
 
I love my in laws!
BFLYKISSES
3/2/06 7:08 P
 
 
I Like most of my future in-laws.. His Dad and Mom are hard to take sometimes but we get along pretty well. He is the baby of 5 kids so everyone is over protective of him. His brother is a jerk, but his 3 sisters are amazing.
LAUROURA
3/1/06 10:48 A
 
 
i get along great with them! our families are very different: my side divorced when i was 5 and dont get along too well and i am an only (except for two half sibs 11 and 7)...his side have been married for 30+ years and he has an older sister. we fit each other well and our families like us both!
PINUAL
3/1/06 10:17 A
 
 
In truth I prefere my futur wifes family over my own about 70% of the time.
JOJO1974
3/1/06 8:34 A
 
 
My In-Laws are great folks (they had a great son!). They are very similar to my family style so there isn't egg shell walking around there.
BUTTERFLYBRIDE
3/1/06 12:23 A
 
 
FIL is a big softy and always nice to be with and deal with. She is something else .....I could write a book.

Last saturday we went to a cousins party which was an open house starting at 3pm. I made lots of food for the party and was late getting into the shower and got to the party at 3:45. MIL2 B's first words to me as she hugged me - "Couldn't your GPS get your hear on time" at that I got annoyed and walked into the other room. I was fuming - she didn't even say "Hello" and straight away it was a slap on the wrist for being late............it wasn't even her party!!! Lots more people arrived even up to 7pm.

H2B just dosen't understand why I get so upset when she is like this. He tells me not to take it personally and she didn't mean anything negative when she says these things. But whatever way I look at it - what she said was rude and was not her place to comment if I arrive on time or not.
SARALYNN1
2/28/06 1:43 A
 
 
Love them...me and my fiance are both only children! So we are both very spoiled...It is weird to think about but our children is not going to have any aunts or uncles....but our children will be very spoiled by their grandparents!
KERISMA
2/27/06 6:13 P
 
 
I have the best in-laws ever. My family and I are from Oklahoma, and my fiance and his family are from California (LA), so the diversity is very interesting. I find his family fascinating, and we get along great! :)
POOBROWN