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6/5/12 12:55 P

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I love the chaplain Marriage Retreat!

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2/16/12 10:50 A

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I am so sorry to hear about your marriage trouble. I think a lot of us have been there at some point, and it's hard to go through. We went to a faith-based marriage counseling couple and it made all the difference. It's a LOT of hard work, and the trust will rebuild when you see that he is committed to you and making your marriage work. Best of luck. emoticon

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2/10/12 10:31 P

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If you have to make him do things, then there's no point. People only change if they want to, you can't change anyone.

I've seen men do that just because they like the attention. It's like they don;t realize its wrong or something lol

If he really wants to get rid of her, he needs to cut all contact with her and the phone thing...all he can do is change his number.



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12/5/11 7:35 P

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With Military One Source you can get counseling ASAP. But he needs to be honest with you and himself first. I'd give him one more chance and then I'd be out. Not worth hanging onto a liar.

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11/23/11 8:44 A

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Thank You for the advice we are looking into going to marriage classes

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11/22/11 3:53 P

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I am so sorry.

1. Marriage counselor.

2. If he wants any accts (facebook, etc) they need to be a joint acct.

3. He needs to get rid of her phone # as well. It is completely no contact with her or you. He needs to choose.

4. The only way you can move forward is to forgive and forget. It is difficult....best wishes.

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So I've been married for almost 8 yrs. I know my husband has a lot on his plate and he's stressed because of work and such but I've recently found out that he's been Facebook chating sexually with an old friend from highschool. I confronted him about him and he gave me the my computer got hacked and it wasn't me excuse. I told him that I got the chat forwarded to me and I know there's no way to change it. I told him that if he loves me and he wants to stay married he needs to stop. So I will give him credit. He blocked her from Facebook, got rid of his yahoo account and his yahoo chat. The problem is she still has his phone number and he has hers. I told him that since I'm going back to college in July I'd give him til I get my degree to decide if he wants to stay in this marriage or not. He told me he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me and such but I'm having a hard time forgiving him/trusting him. This has given me the motivation to lose weight again but then I'm stressed a lot and worried about everything. Can anyone give me some advice? Thanks so much emoticon

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