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6/19/08 3:51 P

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I understand about not wanting any more surgeries. My mom's tram failed horribly and left her tummy more like the grand canyon than a tummy.

I'm so glad you are ok now and are getting back into shape. I hired a trainer at the YMCA to help me with weight training until I was able to do them sufficiently by myself.

After about 3 10 week sessions, I am now able to do just about anything (with the exception of 2 and that's just because I'm short, not that I can't do them because of the surgeries).

Keep working at it, things do get easier eventually. Sometimes eventually just takes it's time getting here.

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6/19/08 1:11 P

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My plastic surgeon suggested this method, but I did not want to consider it. I am very young and support myself financially 100%. The extra time this surgery would have required off for the recovery would have severely affected me paying my bills. Also I was not very open to the idea of cutting into another part of my body to fix my breasts. I know a lot of women have had that done and are fine with it, but I had soo many surgeries in one year I don't think that me or my body could take anything else!!
Thanks for the welcome and support!

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6/19/08 8:17 A

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Welcome Melinda, keep trying and you'll get there. It may take awhile but you can do it. Were you able to try the diep flap (tummy tuck) for your reconstruction?

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CLOVETTA1 Posts: 23
6/18/08 3:13 P

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Hi Melinda sorry to heard about what you are going through but keep the faith and know that we are hear for you .

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6/18/08 8:45 A

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Welcome to our group Melinda. We are so glad to have you. Please don't get frustrated. You are right, it is a bit more challenging to lose that weight now, but it can be done with some perseverance and a strong group behind you, and you've got that in this team. Thanks for joining us in our journey.


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6/18/08 12:20 A

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Thanks for sharing your story. Many of us are dealing with the same issues. Weight gain from chemo, radiation, and Tamoxifen or other drugs. I have noticed since I had chemo it is much harder for me to loose weight, it is like my metabolism is in super slow motion. It is very hard to NOT get frustrated. But I feel better having lost just 12 pounds and that keeps me motivated (well most days that is) to loose more. Good luck to you and let me know if I can do anything to help.

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6/17/08 7:40 P

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I am 26 years old and my last chemotherapy session was on January 10, 2008. I was diagnosed on July 6, 2007. I obviously had a very hard year, nothing went right with my treatment from the beginning. I opted to have a very radical procedure, double mastectomy, because I have the breast cancer gene. I planned on doing reconstruction (i was very well endowed before). Even though I had one of the best plastic surgeons, the Reconstruction was completely unsuccessful. My body rejects the implant, I have had about 7 surgeries in the last year to correct everything.

So now I wear prosthesis and I am just glad that my ordeal is over. Now I get to deal with the after effects: mainly the bills and the weight. When I was going through chemo I felt like I deserved to eat whatever I wanted to whenever I wanted to. Due to that and the steroids I put on about 22 of the 75 total pounds that I had lost a year prior to being diagnosed. I have worked hard and lost 7 pounds in the last month. I am finding my whole body is different than before I got sick, my fat is being redistributed in different places than before. ALso I had lymph nodes removed so it is harder for me to lift weights. But I am persevering!

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