I'm sorry you are having a rough time of it. my dh when I first started this hated it. hated the fact I wanted to lose weight and feel good about myself. he though it was to lose him. I had to finally sit him down and explain, that this is for me, I want to feel good about myself. I want to lose weight to look good for myself. To teach my daughters a good example. I want to be a role model for my children. Ever since then, he has warmed up to cooking lighter, trying new foods, new recipes. He is skeptical at times about some recipes but then I tweak them even further and use less fat and calories and he doesn't even know. he even quit smoking finally a month ago, is quitting drinking, and started working out. He had to realize himself that he has gained 50 extra pounds over the years and he had to be ready. I didn't try to force him, I just changed our habits a little especially with food. Now he sees how good I feel and he wants to feel that way also. He is in this thing with me so we are much more active now. Now that we have our WII we always play it especially on Friday nights, we have family game night and our neighbors come over and we play for hours along with our children. We are all active and it is fun. good luck.
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