i think i know what you're saying
but if you're the joke, and you use your weight as a joke, and let others do it, it's time to stop!! time to value yourself, and make others do it too!! it'll be hard to change habits, but over-weight people hide way too much behind jokes and things that hurt, time to be much, much better to yourself!!
best of luck to you here
"Losing weight is not about willpower--it's about moments of bravado, like the moment when you ask your waiter to take the bread away from the table right away." ~~Jillian Michaels
~~we don't see things as they are, we see things as we are-- anais nin
| Pounds lost: 16.2