Ok im asking for help from both men and women!! I went back to college last year only part time as I am still working full time and I have a 2 yr old at home. I am very stressed with everything on my plate and my husband doesnt seem to want to help. He doesnt clean, doenst help with our daughter, and doesnt support my weight loss journey. How do I get him to help out around the house more and with our daughter? I am trying to potty train her but i cant do it alone and I cant get him to help with that either. I dont have time to clean so my house is always messy and he doesnt seem to care. When it comes to me losing weight I feel like hes trying to sabatoge me. Everyweek its lets go out to dinner and he picks places that have nothing healthy to eat. We went to a bar that only served bbq once i had to order a grilled cheese and sweet potatoe fries bc that was the healthies thing on the menu. He wont go on walks with me but gets mad when I do. Always eats all my healthy food I buy then gets mad at me when I get mad when its all gone. I am happy him and my daughter are eating healthy but save some for me! Ive been wanting a punching bag for a year and his dad (my father in law) said I could have $300 to spend for my bday this past month and I wanted to buy that. I think it would be like $100 by the time I buy that bag, the gloves, and shipping. I was also going to buy gloves for our daughter since I know if mommy is doing it she would want to but he said no we have no rooom for it even though i was ok with it being in the garage. I have talked to him and he says he will help out more and hes not trying to sabatoge my weight loss. But he doesnt and it still feels like he is. What do I do. His family supports me in everything i am doing and tells him he needs to help out more and he doesnt listen to them either! HELP!!
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